What should I do if my child always breaks his word when he goes to the kindergarten middle class?

It is common for children to break their promises, especially children of kindergarten age, and they can always hear them bargaining with their parents, teachers and children and breaking their promises. First of all, children don't keep their promises. Parents need to find reasons from themselves first. Do parents set a good example for their children to keep their promises in their daily lives?

For example, when children put forward their own needs, many parents may make irresponsible remarks in order to calm a temporary conflict, just to stop their children from crying or to end the embarrassing situation for their parents in public. However, parents can't cash it in time afterwards, and children will naturally learn from it and don't abide by the agreement and commitment. Secondly, parents need to stick to their boundaries kindly and firmly, so that children will not continue to challenge their parents' bottom line in order to meet unreasonable demands. For example, children love watching cartoons. Many parents have a headache for their children's bad faith. After watching two episodes, they still left the TV on. If parents turn off the TV by force, it will trigger a war with their children.

What we need to do at this time is to inform in advance and agree on the methods of gestures and signals. Tell your child in a specific language in advance how many episodes does your mother agree to watch? Then ask the child what kind of gestures can be used to remind her after reading? Let children participate in the formulation of rules, and most children are willing to abide by their own rules.

Finally, if the child is emotional, please stay with the child and feel the same. When someone is understood, he will feel better. Tell how the child felt at that time, whether it was disappointment, frustration or anger, tell why the child believed, and boldly tell the child's wishes. Once children are understood by their parents, they can establish emotional ties with their parents.