How should you get along with your sloppy mother-in-law if you are a germaphobe?

In real life, I didn’t meet a sloppy mother-in-law. I met a sloppy father-in-law. My mother-in-law was average about hygiene, not to mention how clean she was. In the past, people in rural areas were not very good at personal hygiene. Hygiene and family hygiene may not be taken very seriously. Now that we are living together, to be honest, I am in pain, very painful. Sometimes I really want to ask my husband if I can let them go back to the countryside. , but there is no way, those are his parents. Sometimes I have no choice but to let my husband talk about his parents.

How sloppy my father-in-law is. It’s okay if you say you don’t like bathing when it’s cold in winter, but you should take a bath at the head office once every half month. Others don’t. Maybe they don’t even take a bath once a month. You If you don’t want to take a shower, why don’t you just wash your feet? If that doesn’t work, people will say that I did it yesterday. This is just personal hygiene, so I won’t talk about it.

The key is that he also has the same habit of home hygiene. He always drops his food on the floor, but he never cleans it. People think that cleaning should be done by women. He thinks he did it. The garbage should be handled by others, and he also has the habit of spitting out phlegm. Sometimes I have no choice but to tell my husband. After my husband told him many times, he finally changed this.

However, I really can’t accept living together and eating together. I just like to turn over dishes. Sometimes it’s really not about quality, but that I don’t feel dirty, but that doesn’t mean others don’t mind. Anyway, it’s very painful for me to live with him now. I don’t even think about it now, because the more I think about it, the less I want to live together.

But if you say something to an old man, he won’t be able to listen to you. Sometimes this is a lifelong living habit. Even if you say something, it’s impossible for him to really listen to you just because you are a junior. It's been changed.