Things going on in Bagua Village

To be honest, I have a very contradictory mentality now. Every time I go back to the village, I will be entangled in my heart for a long time. Firstly, I don’t want to hear the gossip about the boss and the west and the shortcomings. Secondly, after hearing it, I feel that it is the same as the story. Then I felt a sense of powerlessness.

Let’s talk about what I heard when I went back this time. Neighbor Xiaomu's wife has not come back since April. During this period, Xiaomu called her mother-in-law's house several times and never came back. Xiaomu and Xiaowen have actually been married for more than ten years. They have a son and a daughter. The son is now in junior high school and the daughter is in elementary school. They have a car and a house at home. Their parents-in-law are young, and they have two brothers, one of whom is eight years old. The grandfather, who is more than ten years old, is supposed to have a happy family. What is it that makes this daughter-in-law unwilling to come back?

The reason is that things from last year were brought up again. It turns out that Xiaowen's mother-in-law loved to play mahjong, so she set up a mahjong table at home. Every evening, the mahjong friends would gather at her mother-in-law's house to play cards together. Xiao Wen also likes to play cards, so he often spends half the night at her mother-in-law's house. Then I had some ambiguous relationship with Mahjong friend Xiaolu.

Then one day Xiaomu inadvertently checked Xiaowen’s mobile phone at home and discovered the inappropriate words in their chat on WeChat, so he took a dagger and went to Xiaolu to settle the score. Of course, in the end, he was The neighbor who was a guest of the Xiaolu family was brought back. Then Xiaowen returned to her parents' home in anger. Later, after adjustment by the matchmaker, they said that no one would mention this matter again and it would be over. And the fact that the mother-in-law paid for Xiaowen to buy a car is a complete story.

This day has calmed down. But Xiaowen’s mother-in-law is a talkative person. During the conversation with Xiaowen’s father, she mentioned that when she was engaged to Xiaowen, she heard her sister-in-law say that Xiaowen was a crazy girl and loved money. As a result, Xiaowen’s father After hearing this, he went to Xiaomu's aunt to settle the score and asked why she was talking about her daughter. Then the two families had a fight. Xiaomu's aunt was so angry that she came to Xiaomu's mother and argued that this happened more than ten years ago. She also kindly reminded her at the time, now that you have become a family, why are you bringing this matter up with your in-laws? Then Xiaomu's mother was also very angry, because Xiaomu's mother's original intention may be to say that she felt that her daughter-in-law was not such a person, and she wanted to suppress it first and then promote it, but she ended up being embarrassed. This sister-in-law and Xiaomu's mother had a falling out. From now on, I don't care about anyone.

Then in April, Xiaowen argued with her mother-in-law about why she should give 30,000 yuan to Xiaomu’s brother and sister-in-law. The reason was that when the family was separated, Xiaowen’s side was divided into two sets of yards, while Xiaomu’s was divided into two yards. There was only one set, and when the family was separated, my mother-in-law said that she would pay for brother Xiaomu's house to repair the roof, but then there was no news about it. Then Xiaomu's sister-in-law heard that she had bought a car for her sister-in-law, so she decided to get back the repair money for the separate house, or else she would not come back to her parents' house. Xiaowen felt that he had not given so much money to his sister-in-law, so he was so angry that he argued with her mother-in-law. As a result, her mother-in-law told her about the ambiguous WeChat incident last year. Then Xiaowen returned to her parents' home in anger.

A few days ago, my 80-year-old grandfather passed away, and I once again found an intermediary to ask Xiaowen to come back and attend the funeral for the old man. Then Xiaowen's request was that he would be returned in exchange for 200,000 yuan. Finally, after adjustment by the middleman, he said that the matter would be settled by giving him 50,000 yuan. At this time, Xiaomu's father asked: "I gave her money, will she leave when she comes back?" The middleman said that there is no guarantee. If you get along well and treat each other well, the other party will naturally not leave. At this time, the mother-in-law said: "If you give 50,000 to Xiaowen, you must also give 50,000 to the eldest daughter-in-law." Xiaomu's mother probably thought that if she gave the same amount this time, no one would say anything.

But the gossip group in the village said that after the money was given, something might happen in the future. I asked curiously: "Why?" Because Xiaomu's mother had already told the eldest daughter-in-law that the old man Er’s daughter-in-law won’t come back unless she gives her 200,000 yuan. This time I was called back.

The eldest daughter-in-law must have thought that she gave Xiao Wen 200,000 yuan. Can she give 50,000 yuan to the eldest daughter-in-law’s family?

Then Bagua Xiaolu was so thick-skinned, how thick-skinned he was, he molested his daughter-in-law and was punished with a bucket of knives, and he continued to go to Granny Xiaowen’s house to play mahjong every night , and Granny Xiaowen and her family were also allowed to go. Do you think this person is thick-skinned? No, the old man passed away. He was still busy here and there. I really don’t know what these two people in the family were thinking.

What do you think? Could it be that we broke up with each other because of an ambiguous WeChat message? Maybe there was nothing wrong with them, but if they didn't interact with each other, it would prove that the man and the woman were more troublesome. Things in this village may not be a big deal, but they make people feel uneasy. Maybe the mother-in-law is not very good at talking, and maybe the daughter-in-law feels that her mother-in-law is partial and gives the other party an advantage.