This is your first time, so don’t be afraid. Be tough and be high-profile. What's the meaning

"This is your first time as a human being. Don't be afraid. Be tough and be high-profile." It means: This is the first time for everyone. Be tough and be high-profile and don't go too far. Depressed.

This passage reminds me of my cousin:

My cousin has a more straightforward personality and is very kind to others. Now he has many friends around him. But the only bad thing is that he talks too little, doesn't like to communicate with others, is not decisive enough in doing things, and is a little too low-key.

Later, my cousin found a girlfriend. The two got along very harmoniously at first, but as time went by, their shortcomings became apparent. For example, my cousin is timid, has no confidence in what he does, is too honest and kind, does things in a low-key manner, etc. Then, my girlfriend said something like this: "Dear, don't be afraid. This is the first time for everyone, and we are all equal. We need to be tougher and work in a more high-profile manner. Only in this way will our work performance be judged by our leaders." Only when you see it can you become more courageous."

Yes, everyone has their own way of being a person, but in fact they don't just do what they say. Because it is more because it has been formed in the bones.

For example, this person is originally a low-key person and does not like to show off. If you ask him to show off, he will not know how to do it. Therefore, the best way is to be yourself.