What is it like to have a wife with high emotional intelligence?

When talking about how companies succeed, Jack Ma said: "Successful companies are often because of high emotional intelligence. I don't like academic masters, I like people with high emotional intelligence!" Emotional intelligence is not just a matter of looking at it. It can be seen on the surface, not to mention high emotional intelligence. So what is high emotional intelligence? What will be the performance?

Some people say that people with high emotional intelligence are very good at talking, and what they say is accepted and liked; some people say that people with high emotional intelligence are very good at doing things. Everything you do is acceptable and touching; some people say that people with high emotional intelligence are easy to get along with, and you can talk and laugh happily with him or her! Yes, what would it be like to have a wife with high emotional intelligence?

Now, let’s listen to the inner truths of these three men.

01. Long Shaojie, 42 years old, married for 18 years: I have been transformed

Although my wife is inconspicuous, she is a woman with high emotional intelligence. When I am busy, she not only understands me, but also tries not to distract me, and also makes everything at home in order. No matter it is big or small, she will discuss it with me. In the past, I was a bit chauvinistic and always wanted to speak out. She would always say nothing when I was emotionally intense, especially when my family and relatives were around. In terms of my face, I didn't realize how good she was at first, but I still liked to command and guide her. She rarely seemed to refute this in person.

One day I was cooking in the kitchen. But for the first time, she kept nagging at the side: "You are too hot, put in the onions and garlic quickly, otherwise they will be burnt. Now put in the garlic sprouts, ah, you are too late!" I was very annoyed by what she said. , just said directly: "I know how to cook, you can rest while you go."

She laughed and said: "You finally know how I feel when you are blindly directing me while I am driving. "It's..." I froze there holding the shovel. From then on, I never talked about her again when she was driving, and of course, she never talked about me when I was cooking.

She often said to her son: "Don't just care about your own ideas when doing things, but also care about the feelings of others. She is obviously educating her son, but I always feel that she is talking about me, but I do feel that my chauvinism needs to be changed, and I was transformed by my wife with high emotional intelligence.

After all, when a husband and wife are together, their relationship can only be built up by understanding each other. , a person always thinks about himself, why not live alone in the end?

02 Brother Hui, 58 years old, remarried for 5 years: I am envied

I Although my current wife and I are married for the second time, she respects me very much and will not make trouble without reason.

When I was with my ex-wife, she was always suspicious, especially during the business trip: I was very busy. We were having sex, but she kept making phone calls one after another... It was really unreasonable.

When I was having dinner with my colleagues, my ex-wife always said that I was useless, and even said in front of my colleagues that it would be better not to find such a husband. Looking for...

I feel very relaxed and comfortable with my current wife. She never calls to urge me after a business trip. Sometimes she will tell me: Work at ease, I am at home.

< p>When I have dinner with my colleagues, my current wife never interrupts. When I ask her questions, she always praises me. I am here for her, so she doesn’t have to worry about anything at home. She praises me to the point of being stunned. .

I have always felt that I was so lucky to be able to marry her.

I remember when we first got married, I invited a bunch of friends to go out for dinner, and everyone ended up drinking. I was so happy that I started talking nonsense. For some reason, a male friend said that "couples who have been together for many years are like holding the right hand with the left hand." As a result, the faces of several girls present were ugly.

Then, the friend hurriedly explained that it was a joke and should not be taken seriously. Unexpectedly, my wife said seriously: "The left hand holds the right hand" is a good metaphor.

First. , The left hand and the right hand are both your own hands; thirdly, no matter how delicate and gentle other hands are, they can be thrown away later; thirdly, as long as you have the left hand or the right hand, you are incomplete, right?

< p>The men at the table were dumbfounded and praised her. The male friend also gave my wife a thumbs up and envied me for marrying a wife with such a high emotional intelligence.

How could I not cherish a wife with such a high emotional intelligence?

03 Sun Bin, 45 years old, married for 12 years: I was conquered

My wife is beautiful and capable, and a woman with extremely high emotional intelligence. Because she was a funny and humorous woman, there were a lot of people chasing her at that time.

I met her by chance in the first semester of my junior year. At that time, she was comforting her helpless classmates and said: "It's useless to be kind. You have to be beautiful and rich. If someone helps you, you are lucky; if no one helps you, it is a just fate."

After hearing this, I was curious to know what kind of woman she was. After getting to know her, he vowed to marry her home.

It took me three years to catch her. I think I will never be able to live without her in my life. When I am with her, I will be very happy and joyful, leaving all my worries behind. She gives me a relaxed and powerful strength that makes me climb up for her and want to give her the best. ”

There was a time when she had just been promoted, and I was afraid that she would be a little complacent and want to PUA her. I said, “You fight like a man every day, so you can’t be like the kid next door.” Like Fen, do you pay a little attention to dressing up and grooming yourself? Or at least buy more big-name clothes like our sister Chen upstairs? Women need to change more, but men are prone to aesthetic fatigue. ”

When I said this, I was joking, but after hearing this, my wife said: “Oh, I know. Sister Ling in our unit has just been promoted, and the home has just been replaced with a new one.” Damn, I have to learn from her. "

"Did she add anything new to her house? "I asked curiously.

"She just found a more handsome and younger husband yesterday. "The wife replied.

"Hahaha", after all, my wife is more skilled. I am willing to be inferior. Without her, I was conquered by her.