It turned out to be a joke in the eyes of his family.

It can be seen from the tone of your question that you really care about the feelings of your family, but suddenly something happened, which made you suddenly feel that they didn't take you seriously. In fact, sometimes the family's reaction is the most direct, and it doesn't necessarily mean anything else. It's just a confession of direct emotion. For example, if you do something wrong, your mother will say, I will kill you! But it turned out to be just angry words. There are many such situations, especially sometimes you may really have your own problems, so when you are disappointed, these words will blurt out and you will feel uncomfortable.

Review yourself and think from the perspective of your family. If you are really wrong, correct it. If it is a family misunderstanding, find a suitable time to explain. By strengthening communication, we can solve negative things.

To take a step back, if family members are really eccentric and difficult to communicate, then it is more important for a person to know how to be grateful and self-reliant, plan his own mental maturity and future development path, and take a step back to see the whole thing, so that you will not have the extreme idea of being laughed at. Come on!