Confession couple TV series (only after watching this TV series)

Two days ago, I was singing karaoke at my uncle's house. When I turned to Mao's "Sorrow", the MV actually showed Anglenala in the toilet with a child in her arms. (Isn't it weird, why Mao's songs are not easy to match such a MV? )

My impression of Anglenala still stays in the costume drama "The Pretty Princess" that she collaborated with Alec Su in 25. Unexpectedly, at that time, she was eccentric, and after more than ten years, she played a full-time mother.

first, I searched the complete works of Anglenala TV, and found that there was no such one. Then I searched for Anglenala and children. Finally found this TV series.

So, I haven't watched Korean dramas for a long time, so I downloaded Korean TV and carefully watched the Confessions starring Anglenala and Sun Haojun.

The drama is about Ma Zhenzhu and Cui Peninsula, a couple of nearly 4 years old, whose marriage life ended in divorce. However, when I woke up, I found that both of them returned to the days when they met in their early 2 s. Although both of them made up their minds to choose again with the memory of 4 years old, in the end, they chose each other.

In this play, we have seen many stories about marriage.

We also find that destroying marriage is often not an earth-shattering event. It is often trivial things in daily life that lead to the final breakdown of marriage. Small things don't communicate, and finally become irretrievable events

At the beginning of the series, I saw that Ma Zhenzhu, a stay-at-home mother, was exhausted to take care of the children.

with dark circles under her eyes, she finally waited for the child to fall asleep and hurried to the table to grab a bite of rice. The child woke up before the meal was served. She had to hurry to pick up the child, holding the child in one hand and wolfing down a few mouthfuls of rice.

She has a protective device on her wrist, which is a disease that only novice mothers usually get: tenosynovitis. Holding a child in your arms for a long time will make your wrist as painful as arthritis.

opening your eyes every day is a child's life, which makes her tired and helpless.

But as a husband, Cui Peninsula didn't realize his wife's sufferings.

When the wife goes to the toilet, the child keeps knocking at the door. She had to go to the toilet while holding the baby. But when the husband got up and saw this scene, he complained why she didn't close the door.

she felt very wronged. But is she the only one who is wronged and stressed?

not really.

actually, it's not easy to be a husband who sells medicine.

in order to get business, I have endless good words and smiling faces for my customers.

and because the delivery was late, my colleagues were involved. He had to buy his colleagues drinks to apologize.

besides, he has to cover for the extramarital affairs of the hospital director.

when the dean's wife met the mistress, it was him who was beaten.

With such humiliation, he made up his mind to have a showdown with the dean: I quit. But when you turn around, you still have to smile.

making money is more important than self-esteem.

It can be said that the fatigue and helplessness of adults are all shown in this story.

When Ma Zhenzhu went to the hospital alone with her son with acute enteritis in the middle of the night, she called her husband Cui Peninsula countless times, but she didn't get through once.

she had to take the children to the hospital alone.

Seeing this, many women feel the same way. When the family needs a man, he is not around. Many mothers have experienced the pain.

But what is Cui Peninsula doing at the moment? He is making a small apology to his colleagues. In order to work well in the company in the future.

this makes us hate it again.

the world of adults has its own difficulties.

This became the last straw to crush this marriage, not the hardship of life, but a misunderstanding.

When she came back from the hospital, she saw the credit card bill that her husband lent to the dean, Xiaosan.

she called to question her husband.

Cui Peninsula has just been beaten black and blue by the dean's wife. He was afraid to go home and worry his wife, so he had to hide in the car under the heavy rain.

when his wife called to ask questions, his emotions also broke out.

So the two men began to blame and complain to each other.

No one calmed down and listened to each other's explanations about what problems they had encountered that day.

In the fierce words, I ended up filing for divorce.

At this time, there was a bouquet of flowers for my wife on the car in Cui Peninsula, which was for the wedding anniversary.

is there no love in their hearts? No, it's just the tempering of life, which has covered the initial feelings with dust. More importantly, there is a lack of communication between them in their marriage life.

it is an indisputable fact that the life of adults is full of hardships. Two people get married in order to face the ups and downs of life together.

between husband and wife, there is either a division of labor between men and women, or both husband and wife have jobs. Sometimes, there is only a short time to stay together all day.

Many couples don't make good use of this time.

Either they are still busy with their work, or they watch TV and brush their mobile phones.

there is no communication.

in marriage, even if you have only a little time to stay together, you should ensure that there is enough communication between you.

many people say that there is nothing to say when we meet every day.

There are so many things that couples can talk about, so they can talk about interesting things that they met in one day. You can talk about the problems you encounter in your work. You can also talk about the pressures you encounter in your life.

Only by speaking it out can we better understand that I am not the only one who is working hard for this family. Marriage needs a sense of ceremony

In the play, Ma Pearl sees a pair of pearl earrings in Cui Peninsula's briefcase. Pearl, who was exhausted by children and housework, immediately beamed.

however, the next moment, her dream was shattered.

It turns out that pearl earrings are not for her. It's a gift that Cui Peninsula bought for the dean.

This is also the reason why Pearl threw the phone book of Cui Peninsula into the water.

There is some sense of ceremony in marriage, which will make the marriage more fresh.

In The Little Prince, there is a passage about the sense of ceremony:

"What is a ceremony?" Asked the little prince. "This is also something that is often forgotten."

The fox said, "It just makes one day different from other days and one moment different from other moments."

when we work hard for life all day, there is one day in every year, which can be different from other times.

you can make time to spend together.

can be a bunch of flowers;

it can be a greeting;

it can also be a greeting card;

it's like a charging time. Let us have the strength to deal with the difficulties and obstacles in the future. We still need to pay attention to the details in marriage

The so-called "beauty is in the eye of the lover", when we are in love, everything is good in each other's eyes.

apart from the deep affection, the bigger reason is that at this time, two people have never lived at close range.

both of them are trying their best to make a good impression on each other.

But after marriage, as two people live together for longer and longer. All the problems that were not exposed before were revealed.

"There are no great men around, and there are no beauties on the pillow"

In Confessions, Ma Zhenzhu's untidiness and the untidiness of Cui Peninsula are all the features of many couples' lives.

when many people see their partners like this, they will think in disgust, "Why did I have a crush on such people in the first place?"

these little sloppy and careless things don't seem to be a big deal. But it makes married life easier to get bored. Accusing each other is a taboo in marriage

Ma Zhenzhu and Cui Peninsula broke down on the eve of their divorce because of their respective pressures in life. On the phone, they accused each other: "If it weren't for you, how could I be like this!"

Blaming the other party is actually passing on your anxiety and fear. When we face the pressure of life, there are usually two ways: escape or face it directly.

We know that the correct way is to solve problems actively. But it will be easier to escape. Therefore, when choosing, we usually choose to escape.

when we blame others, it is actually an escape.

that's why there is the saying "it's all because of you": it's only because I met you that I became very bad.

since it's your problem, I don't need to solve it. I just need to throw all the problems at you.

Blaming will only make the relationship more antagonistic, and solving the problem is the key.

marriage is a relationship that needs lasting management. We can't go back to our twenties and start our lives again like men and women.

Let's treat our marriage and our other half well from now on.