Husband and wife quarrel or the cold war hurts feelings more. Why?

I think both husband and wife quarreling and the cold war hurt feelings, and if I have to choose which one hurts feelings the most, I think the cold war hurts feelings even more. Let me analyze why the cold war hurts feelings more than quarreling.

First of all, quarreling is the most common thing in husband and wife's life, but there are two kinds of quarrels. One is quarreling for quarreling, and the other is quarreling because of various contradictions. Generally speaking, quarreling is the outbreak of various contradictions, and then quarreling is a marital relationship problem. This time has reached the extreme of emotional rift, so try not to quarrel at this time and start communication, otherwise it will break out.

Another kind of cold war, as the name implies, is that the two sides directly start to ignore each other after quarreling or have not experienced quarreling. At this time, both sides have a game mentality that whoever bows first will lose first, so both husband and wife are unwilling to bow, and the cold war is the most harmful way for children at this time, because children will feel more uncomfortable when they see their parents, and the biggest harm is that if someone enters at this time of the cold war, . This is the characteristic of quarreling and the cold war, and I think the reason why the cold war hurts feelings more than quarreling is that although quarreling is the beginning of the outbreak of contradictions between the two sides, after quarreling, the two sides can usually sit down and talk together, so there is still room for reservation. Once the contradiction of the cold war breaks out, it will be a devastating blow to marriage and may lead to irreversible consequences. So, in the end, I think the cold war hurts my feelings the most. Finally, I think there is no contradiction between husband and wife that cannot be solved. As long as the two sides sit down and discuss together, there is nothing wrong with it.