Parent-child diary five separate beds

? I read a report before that children must be separated from their parents before they are six years old, otherwise they will become cowardly, timid and dependent children. But my son is eight years old, and we still sleep together. Even if I add a 1.5-meter bed next to the original 1.8-meter bed, the whole bedroom is full of beds.

One of the reasons why I didn't let my son sleep in separate beds was that I didn't want my son to feel that his mother didn't want him when he gave birth to a second child. Besides, I don't want to sleep in separate beds. My son gets up at 6: 30 in the morning and goes home at 5: 30 in the afternoon (small table at noon). In addition to eating and doing homework, we can only talk about confidence when we sleep.

After finishing homework every day, my family of four (dad is busy with work and doesn't participate in us at ordinary times) will play games together, or I will watch them fight, sometimes my sister cries and sometimes my brother is angry, so I will coax this and teach that. Sometimes I laugh and sometimes I break up. Anyway, I finally got enough, so I went to sleep.

When my sisters are asleep, I will chat with my son, and my son will tell me cheerfully who I fought with today, who I was a good friend with, and who I played what game with. Seeing him talking to me with an excited face, I listened quietly.

At first, I was worried. After all, fighting is not a good thing, but slowly you will find that what children say, enemies, revenge and fighting, are just fights between children, and later they become good friends. Of course, I will still say, "It's okay to fall and fight, so be careful."

Today, he also told me that once his leg was knocked down and his skin fell off. That tone should be saying, I didn't tell you, you see, how brave I am!

Little boys are a little heroic. Although this is a little twisted, it is small after all. Think about when we were young, we would put on our mother's sheets and treat ourselves as princesses!

Although he has no bed, he actually sleeps by himself. Give him some space of his own, and let him adapt to growth slowly. It also made me more involved in his growth. I hope that in a few years, he will be willing to share his bit by bit with me!