Specifically, unmarried male colleagues, young and unstable, always go to another married female colleague's station to play with her, that is, go every day and have food.

This man wants to ask out a married female colleague. We know the premise that this unmarried male colleague is unstable, and we know that this female colleague is married, but we still don't know how to avoid suspicion. If I were the female colleague, maybe I would reduce my contact with him, or explain something to him clearly, because if this goes on, he will mistakenly think that the female colleague has feelings for him, the husband of the female colleague will inevitably have doubts about the female colleague, and the family of the female colleague will be affected to some extent, and then I will come.