The "three eccentrics" of rural banquets: no one drinks wine when people are away. What else is strange?

Perhaps many people have the impression that rural people are very unpretentious and hospitable.

Especially in the past, people often held banquets in rural society. At that time, rural life was very United and friendly, and they often invited relatives and friends to dinner at home.

Many people know that in the past, rural homesteads were basically allocated by the state, and the rural homestead area was very large.

As long as rural families have happy events or funerals, many people will choose to hold banquets at home.

Moreover, hosting a banquet at home is very lively, which can save some money than hosting a banquet at an outside hotel.

I went to a relative's house in the countryside for a wedding reception two days ago. Generally in rural areas, if I hold a banquet, I will invite some people who specialize in cooking.

In the past, drinking and fencing together were very common in rural areas, which was very popular with other groups of women and children.

But in recent years, with the development of the times, rural conditions are getting better and better, and rural people's lives have entered a well-off society.

However, in recent years, a very strange phenomenon has appeared in rural areas. Nowadays, many people are not keen on attending various banquets. Many rural people turn a blind eye to the invitation of relatives and friends.

What other phenomena are there? Let's have a look.

First, people are impolite.

First of all, many rural people have received invitations or invitations from their hometown, and many people are not keen on attending this banquet.

Because many rural people have been flowing into cities in recent years, young people are now running around for work and life.

Many young people work outside and can only go home once or twice a year. There is a high probability that young people will not go to the boss for dinner and go back to their hometown.

In this process, it still needs to spend a lot of money and time.

Therefore, few people attend many rural banquets. After all, the people who stay in the countryside are basically old people and children.

Therefore, many people in rural areas will not attend banquets and will not give money.

In the past, many people may not go to dinner, but courtesy is indispensable. Many people may transfer money through WeChat.

Second, food is not packaged.

In addition, now the countryside especially likes to hold banquets. In the past, only weddings, funerals and weddings were held in rural areas. Now all the children in the family can go to college or get a driver's license, and some even drink alcohol.

Nowadays, banquets in rural areas are also overwhelming, as if neighbors are vying for banquets.

This has caused an excessive waste of resources, and it is precisely because all kinds of banquets are overwhelming that many people are unwilling to attend.

After all, attending banquets is accompanied by money, which also causes financial difficulties for many families.

Fewer and fewer people attend the banquet, and now all kinds of dishes at the banquet are very common. Now most families are getting better and better, and every meal is big fish and big meat. I don't want to eat a delicious meal from rural society only when I'm hosting a banquet.

Compared with the past, this is very rare in rural areas. These dishes are generally not edible at banquets, and many rural people will pack them and take them home, or feed them to domestic animals.

But now many people pay more attention to face, and always feel that it is a shameful act to guarantee tickets at banquets.

Fewer and fewer people clean up, and when they clean up, they find that many dishes may not have been touched and can only be thrown away as garbage.

Third, no one drinks.

Finally, in rural areas, you will find that not only many dishes are not eaten, but also fewer and fewer people attend, and the wine on the rural table is basically unattended.

Compared with before, rural people often take money to drink, but now this phenomenon is not common. Many people have improved their economic conditions and finally bought cars. Most people have cars, and now drunk driving is particularly strict. Now rural people have begun to pay attention to drinking, generally driving without drinking.

Some people will pay more attention to health. Nowadays, people pay more and more attention to their health. Many people have to have physical examinations several times a year. Generally, drinking will also affect our growth, and a certain burden will cause irreversible harm to the body.

Therefore, people who attend the banquet now basically just eat two bites, which explains something.

Summary:

Many rural banquets will still have various comparisons. Many people will dress up carefully, compare with others at parties and constantly show off their food and clothing. This kind of person is also annoying.

Many people stop attending parties because they don't want to participate in such boring social activities and hear others show off constantly.

Of course, this is also the inevitable trend of the development of the times, and many rural customs have changed their direction.

What do you think of this?