You will get tired of marrying your classmates for several years.

I will get tired of marrying my classmates for seven years.

Couples who have been married for seven years will be called the seven-year itch. Many people say that three years of marriage hurts seven years.

Boredom between husband and wife usually refers to the sweet and intimate feelings experienced by two people in love. This feeling is usually caused by mutual affection, mutual understanding and concern. But with the passage of time, the boredom between husband and wife may gradually weaken or disappear. This may be caused by trivial matters and pressures in life, poor communication and lack of mutual support and understanding.

My seven-year itch story

I have been with my partner for seven years. When we first met, we were deeply attracted to each other and our feelings were hot. However, with the passage of time, we began to face various challenges and difficulties. The pressure of work, the triviality of life and the worry about the future have gradually increased the contradiction between us. We began to quarrel often, were dissatisfied with each other's shortcomings, and even began to doubt whether this relationship was worth continuing.

However, in the process, we also realized that we don't want to give up this relationship easily. We began to try to solve our problems and find our way back to each other's hearts. We began to pay more attention to each other's feelings and communicate more frankly. We strive to travel, find new experiences and fun, and make our life more interesting. We also try to seek professional psychological counseling to help us better understand each other and deal with our emotional problems.

In this process, we also know ourselves and each other better. We found that there are many similarities between our values and lifestyles, which makes us cherish this relationship more. We also find that our strengths and weaknesses can complement each other, which makes us appreciate each other more.

Now, we have passed that difficult period and rediscovered each other's enthusiasm and love. Our relationship has become more stable and mature, and we cherish and appreciate this relationship more. We know that we will be together forever, no matter what challenges and difficulties we will face in the future.

This is my seven-year itch story. Although this process is full of pain and struggle, we have also gained many valuable experiences and lessons from it. We understand the importance of communication and learn how to support and understand each other. We also understand our inner needs and learn how to take better care of ourselves and each other. This process makes us cherish the value of love more, and also makes us more mature and strong.

How to face the pain of three years calmly

1, learn to communicate

In marriage, two people easily vent to each other because of each other's pressure and troubles, which will not only affect their feelings, but also cause psychological burden to their children. It is better to learn to be mentally prepared and treat personality differences correctly. Often two people can sit down and talk about what happened in their lives, so that things can be solved directly.

2. Learn to be tolerant and patient

Many people will expose some shortcomings and weaknesses after marriage. At this time, you must learn to adopt a tolerant attitude. Many people say that eyes must be wide open before marriage and half closed after marriage. The personality of husband and wife can only be fully developed on the basis of compatibility and complementarity. Moderation of the two is also the lubricant of a happy marriage, which requires moderate and beneficial arguments and is also conducive to solving problems and contradictions.

3. Learn to respect each other.

Each of us should have self-esteem and equality, and have our own private space, especially in the relationship between husband and wife. Husbands should also be prevented from following male chauvinism, and wives should also be alert to the sense of henpecked husband. For the division of family roles, husband and wife must let nature take its course, so as to form a representable combination.

summary

The sense of boredom between husband and wife needs the joint efforts and maintenance of both sides. Only by mutual understanding, mutual support and mutual concern can this feeling last for a long time.