Parents always expect their children to succeed, but they don't know that family is the key to influence their children.

I often hear the words: Look at other people's children. If you don't have an arm or a leg, how can you be worse than others' children?

Although it sounds harsh, it is a microcosm of real life. Many parents only know how to have children, but they have no ability to raise them. The key is how to avoid them. So you can only have children if you are pregnant.

Every child has no right to choose from the moment of birth. The lucky child was reincarnated into a rich family, and from then on, he had no worries about food and clothing. Others may be reincarnated into cultural families and edify cultural literacy from an early age; Unfortunately, children may be reincarnated in poor families, and there is no advantage except the fence at home; Perhaps worse, apart from being poor, without education, I don't know what knowledge can change my destiny.

Parents, some are only responsible for bringing those children into this world, and then say to fate that everything is up to him.

When a child is born with nothing, and his parents don't try to train him the day after tomorrow, how can you make him try to change himself? How to prove that you are a capable person? Unless he is born a genius, regardless of his parents, he can finally succeed in counterattack and become a giant?

So this low probability is your child? From the genetic factors, as parents, they are idle all their lives, not to mention letting their children have a beautiful dream, not worrying at all, and letting them break through themselves.

Look carefully, whoever makes a fortune can do it by one person. They are all the wealth accumulated by several generations, and their descendants just use their innate advantages to make Qian Shengqian.

Besides, can an isolated person last long without backstage support behind any big boss? This is that everyone can only fight alone when collecting firewood.

On the other hand, how much influence a family has on children can only be said bluntly, very, very big.

In fact, some parents are short-sighted. They only want their children to go out independently and supplement their families as soon as possible. Unfortunately, they have no contact with the most basic education and have fallen into a vicious circle of family ecology to a great extent.

Qin Gong was born in poverty and had many children since childhood. He has three brothers and two sisters. He is the fourth in the family, so his parents always like to call him old four. In the fifth grade of primary school, he had to drop out of school because his family was poor.

In the fifth grade, he began to go out and hang out with friends all day.

He is too young and uneducated, so he is easily influenced by the outside world

Once, he cheated with his friends. Since then, everyone has been suspicious of him. As long as any family is missing something, he must be the first person to think of it.

Even his real parents don't trust him. Xiao Si will be punished by his parents if someone comes to look for the lost things. Even if he didn't do it, he will certainly take responsibility.

He hated everyone and left home with grievances.

But he met an understanding tutor on the bumpy road of life, and he influenced him in the fourth grade, and the whole person changed.

He found a steady low-paying job. After work, he reads people's inspirational stories slowly by the bed every night. Like a tireless scholar, he quickly turned the experience of others into his own beneficial spiritual pillar.

Reading not only makes him happy, but also makes him learn a lot. From then on, he took books as his friends and took notes.

A few years later, he faded from his immature innocence, matured and became more and more responsible; He may have been a bad boy before, but now he is a heroic hero. He often helps others. He has completely changed, and he has long recognized right and wrong.

He also turned the tide in the company and helped the boss win a lot of rights and interests; If you recall his past and compare it with the present, you will completely subvert all your previous cognition of him.

"Close to Zhu Zhechi, close to jet black." You are absolutely right. When a person is born, the first contact is with his family. Parents are his first teacher, school is his second teacher, and society is his third teacher.

If the first teacher, the second teacher and the third teacher didn't teach him the correct ideas, then you can't directly sentence him to death.

Because he has a fourth teacher, himself.

Fortunately, although he was not the lucky man at first, he finally broke through himself and became an indomitable spirit.

Even if everyone mistreats you, you can't just learn to fall. You should learn to tolerate yourself, take care of yourself, input a lot of new knowledge to yourself, connect with the world, connect with yourself, and be an independent and great person.

Of course, the noble people in life are also very important, but even if there is no such person or it is difficult to meet such a person, then consider yourself a noble person in life. As long as you break through your own efforts, the sun will naturally shine on you.