Loyalty and filial piety can't be both. What's next?

Since ancient times, it is difficult to be both loyal and filial. What we are talking about is to achieve everyone, but not our own small family. Great event. You have to lose a lot. You can't have your cake and eat it. Take the soldiers who guard the border all the year round. They protected the country and could not stay together in their own small home. This is the dilemma of loyalty and filial piety. Their actions are not responsible for the motherland, the people, the youth and the youth.

since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety can't live up to the Tathagata's meaning.

That is to say, loyalty and filial piety can't live up to the best of both worlds since ancient times. If you choose China and Italy, you may find it difficult to be filial to your parents, while if you choose filial piety, you may find it difficult to be loyal to your friends. If you give your feelings, you will fail the Tathagata, that is to say, if you don't fail the Tathagata, you will fail the person you love.

It reflects a person's cognition of feelings and inner helplessness. Life is inherently impossible to be perfect, and it is impossible to monopolize all the good things, and there will be gains and losses. Therefore, we should look at this problem objectively and calmly, so that we can live calmly.