I have known my husband for four years. Married the year before last. I didn't see him until I rummaged through his space yesterday. Do you still have the letter she wrote to her ex-girlfriend?

This is a very sensitive issue, you need to talk it over with your husband. First of all, you need to tell him how you feel and let him know that this information makes you feel uncomfortable and unhappy. Then, you can discuss with him to see if he can delete these messages and reduce your anxiety.

You can tell him that this is not to ask him to delete past memories or deny his former feelings, but to hope that he can respect your feelings and your marriage. You can think with him about how to deal with these past information, and you can consider saving it in other places instead of publicly displaying it on social media. No matter what you decide to do, the most important thing is to respect and understand each other and maintain your marriage relationship.