How to get along with powerful people

In fact, we are often powerless to our families.

Because of the continuous blood relationship, you can't fight or scold.

Elder again.

She has been paranoid all her life, and you can't solve your contradictions through dialogue and communication.

You must accept the status quo now.

Even so, don't blame her, and don't even have the idea of complaining in your heart.

Don't deny that you do.

Because you said that you have been patient with her, and that because of her, you delayed yourself too much, stumbled academically, and lost your favorite woman. Wait a minute.

Although she did badly.

But, because she is a mother, forgive her.

Gratitude: She may have done 10,000 wrong things, but she did the right thing: she gave birth to herself.

Any mistake can be forgiven.

Mentality is very important.

It is not enough to know the truth.

So I know that she is strong (actually not strong, almost morbid).

Then we must find a solution.

Tolerance is by no means the way.

Let me say something that may upset you:

Your tolerance for decades has further fueled her paranoia.

I can almost imagine that she was crying when you quarreled, and there was nothing you could do about it.

You are an adult.

You need the ability to grasp the direction of things.

What do you mean?

Let's simply take the matter of finding a girlfriend.

Love is your own, and it is only natural that you should be your own master.

You should talk to her calmly (pick a time when she is in a good mood)

You must interrupt me. Tell me you always talk to her calmly. How's it going?

Right?

Don't worry, just hear me out.

You tell her, you know, that she loves you for your own good.

Tell her that you love her as much as she loves you.

But she will only be happy if you are happy. Ask her if she's right.

So, you want to find someone who will spend his life by himself.

I believe you have said these words countless times.

What I want to say is:

When you are talking, say it with a smile, but be firm!

If you talk to her every time you are angry,

It's strange that she doesn't cry.

This is what I'm talking about. You should grasp the direction of things.

Smile when you speak, but be firm! !

I found her crying, okay, stop it, stop it.

Continue next time!

Love must not compromise.

I feel that there is a weak part in your personality, which may have a lot to do with her previous management of you.

Now let's talk about your sister.

Your sister is still young.

I'm afraid her character growth will be partly affected by her long-term confrontation with your mother.

If possible, let her go to boarding school.

Let her grow up in different environments

This has had a great impact on her life.

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