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How do you deal with the fact that you broke up but still work together?
How to deal with what you said about breaking up but still working together
①For breakup therapy ②For "can we be friends after a breakup" ③To love to the end but still miss (both parties) Everyone broke up happily ④ On how to forget that girl (boy)
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① First determine whether there is really no hope between you. If you still have hope, you should Fight hard. If there is no hope, then there is no need to persist. The long-term pain is worse than the short-term pain. If you persist, it will be harmful to both parties. But the period just after the breakup was really painful. Thinking about the other person’s mind sometimes makes you want to go to the other person. You must restrain yourself at this time
1. Never deny yourself
If he (she) doesn't love you anymore, you have nothing to lose. Because what you lose is a person who should not love and does not love you, and what the other party loses is a person who loves him or her. Please don't be sad if he (she) doesn't love you anymore. It's not that you are not good, but because he (she) doesn't know how to cherish the good you. Usually after a period of precipitation, the breakup wounds will gradually heal.
A female student once cried and complained that her boyfriend wanted to break up with her because he thought she was not pretty enough. Her friends told the female classmates: In fact, when he was pursuing you, you looked like this. Yes, you haven't changed, he has changed. This is just his excuse, so you don't need to blame yourself. The female classmate asked: Can I win him back if I become more beautiful? A friend said: In fact, the vast majority of people in this world are average beauties. The most important thing is not the beauty of the appearance, but the kindness of the heart. Everyone has their own characteristics and there is no need to change themselves according to the eyes of others. !
2. Don’t slander the other party
Whether you are the one who broke up, or the one who broke up, you must remember to ‘don’t speak ill of the other party’! This is a very important persistence, not to mention who owes someone emotionally, speaking ill of the other party is the most disqualifying behavior. It will cause others to give you negative comments, which will make the relationship you once had become quite worthless. Think about it, when you criticize your boyfriend (girl) for being selfish, stingy, lazy and other shortcomings, others will ask: Then why did you choose him (her) in the first place? Because when you speak ill of the other party, you are also corrupting yourself! gt;gt;gt; Just him if you no longer love him (her)? (She) You should thank him (her)
Because she (him) allows you to learn how to love in the future, and allows you to know how to love him (her) when you meet the truly right person! Let you be like a butterfly emerging from a cocoon, experiencing spiritual cleansing again and again, and finally growing!
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② Yes, if we must be friends, we can do it, but it will make both of us very uncomfortable. It is best to get together and stay away, and keep it in our hearts. Memories will be more romantic than everyday embarrassments. . . . . .
1: Never be friends -
After a breakup, you cannot be friends. Often, the only friends who are friends are that one party has not given up, and the connection is broken, and they hug each other. Have fantasies. I hope that if I can't be a lover or a friend, I can stay by his side. I hope that one day I can impress the other person with my true feelings and get back together. Even if we get back together, what will happen? Can you guarantee that the same thing won't happen one day? ?During this period, you have to face your beloved and be sweet and loving with others. The suffering you have endured is unimaginable. Now that we have broken up, let us abandon everything and move forward gracefully. Even if they are fake friends, why bother? What’s the point of being such a friend? -
Two: Don’t meet -
After breaking up, why bother to meet? Meeting is just a matter of time. It will hurt each other's hearts, because they have loved and hurt each other before, and meeting each other will only remind each other of those unhappy moments. They broke up, and there is no benefit in meeting each other. Friends are not friends, and lovers are not lovers. In what capacity should we meet? Apart from embarrassment , nothing else. If you break up, leave gracefully and don't meet up under any excuse, because you want to start a new life of your own.
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Three: Don’t look for similar ones -
Don’t look for similar ones when you fall in love again, because you always look for the shadow of the other person in the other person, and feel that the other person is the person you used to be. It’s easy to fall into comparison and demand that the other person be the same as before. This is very bad for your own feelings, and you will often become addicted to the past. My love life is just making up for the previous vacancies and my own regrets. -
To love is to be able to love. Don’t dwell on the past. Those are just past events and memories. Don’t do stupid things for the sake of the past. Breaking up is not a big deal, remember to cherish the present.-
If you want to let go, you have to be able to let it go. Since you have chosen to give up, you have to face the future life bravely. Without her, you may not necessarily have no goal in life. So take it up and let it go. This is the way after a breakup. -
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③Sometimes, you think you [should] break up, but the relationship drags on. It's been a long time, why? Because you don’t know how to break up; because you don’t want to be a bad person who abandons the other person; because you know that the other person will definitely commit suicide without you... Because you know that breaking up will hurt, so you didn’t let [break up] become a fact, but in your heart I can't help but think: [If, if I could find a painless backhand method...]
Some people say that [if you don't take the initiative to break up], there will be no pain. This means that I actually want to break up, but I don’t want to say it, because saying it means that I am the one who has changed my heart. If I am the one who has changed my heart, it means that I am sorry for you and everything is my fault. Therefore, I don’t want to be a bad person, so even if I don’t love you, I will never take the initiative to break up with you. People who think this way are a bit selfish. Most of them hope that the decision to break up will be made by the other party. In this way, they will be more relaxed mentally. They can tell themselves: "Okay, you don't want me now, not me." I don’t want you, I didn’t break our promise, you broke it first. ]
Some people also say that [gradual alienation] is the least sad way. The most common method is to increase the distance between time and space when two people are making career decisions. For example, if you want to work in another place, I support it with all my hands; if you want to study abroad, I will help you with your air ticket; if you want to work during the day, Then I would work the night shift. As a result, we had fewer and fewer opportunities to meet each other, and the intersection in life became less and less, and the feeling between the two of us became more and more unfamiliar. Then one day, the breakup became a fact, and no one could I didn’t feel surprised, so I didn’t feel any pain.
Others asked: [If I break up, she will commit suicide. What will happen then? ] This situation is even more troublesome. Maybe it’s because men see women as too useless, or maybe women themselves are really too fragile. No matter what, once a breakup becomes a matter of life and death, no one dares to bear this responsibility. Not to mention what if it makes public news? Therefore, in such a situation, the best way is [not to break up]. It doesn't matter whether we love each other or not, as long as everyone is still alive.
If you won’t make the other person sad if you don’t break up, then is dragging on a relationship that you don’t even think about is another way of hurting the other person? If alienation is a non-sad way to break up, then when one party is waiting hard and still firmly believes that love will not be blocked by time and space, how should you tell the other party that your future with him is actually facing the opposite direction? Just because you are afraid that she will not be able to get over the pain of breaking up, just because you are worried that she will lose the courage to live because of the loss of love. For these reasons, you decide not to break up for the rest of your life, but you can't help but feel regret in your heart and betrayal in your body, except with your words. Apart from what was said above, everything is just an act of breaking up, so what does this mean?
Is there a painless way to break up? To be honest, no (unless you don’t really love each other). Maybe the degree of pain can be divided into severity, and maybe the wounds can be controlled by using breakup techniques. However, breaking up is breaking up, and breaking up is painful. Some people will feel pain for a few days, and some people will feel pain for several years. Some people are so painful that they will never forget it for the rest of their lives...so what? Instead of holding on to a life-or-death relationship, it is better to learn to let go as soon as possible. No matter how painful it is, it will pass and life will still pass. After all, if there is no one, there is also the next one.
Maybe you really don’t want to hurt the other person because of the breakup, but you have to know that feelings are a matter between two people, and breakup is also a matter between two people, but only you know how you feel about a breakup, and no one can help except you. You
All you can do is silently bless the other person
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Being unable to forget is the proof of the existence of your love and profound,
Don’t deliberately forget, don’t be immersed in pain,
Everyone has his own journey, and there will be all kinds of passers-by on the journey. Every relationship has its own journey. Each person's experience is a mark left by life. No matter whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have all happened. Learn to be grateful to everyone who has met or left in your life.
Time is the best medicine. As time goes by, everything will no longer be as unforgettable as it was at first. Adjust your mentality. Life is short and youth is limited. You won’t have too much time to wait. Recall the pain and face everything with a normal mind, and you will have more energy to face the future~
Don’t say that you will be happy when others are happy.. Happiness is your own.. Only when you are happy It's true...Don't be unhappy for someone who can make you unhappy...
Don't think too much, the person you love will never be forgotten in your life. It's just that as time goes by, the memory of him is buried deep in my heart like tea leaves. There is no feeling of love or pain at the beginning, but only the experience of regret or enlightenment! Everyone will experience such pain more or less, just to let us learn how to love, so that we know how to love the truly right person when we meet him! Like butterflies emerging from their cocoons, let us experience spiritual cleansing again and again and eventually grow!
…Cherish the present and live a good life today!
Do something you like and try not to think about it.
Or think about it completely.
Face it bravely , the real solution,
One is to escape, the other is to face, which one is feasible?
△It is said that men (women) will always meet a woman (man) one day in their lives who can make them change. It’s just that you haven’t met it. Don’t worry.
After meeting that girl (boy), you will involuntarily treat the girl (boy) you are talking about as a stranger.
Come on, be happy , tomorrow will be better··
△People say that a man (woman) will always meet a woman (man) one day in his life who can change him. You will also meet a woman (man) one day. When you meet him (her), you will feel that he (she) "before" has become a stranger
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-------- -------------------------------------------------- --------------------------------------------- Men and women break up We still work together and have no physical relationship
That wandering heart seems to have never been strong, even though it has experienced more than wind, frost, rain, snow, but I feel that it seems to be getting weaker day by day, even though the sun is shining brightly , but you still feel as if you are missing a piece of warmth. Is it because you are too empty? I still can't accept the changes happening around me. Maybe I really want too much perfection, but I really don't want to change myself, even if it's just a simple idea, even though I know that maybe I will be happy after changing. No, it should be I will definitely be happy, but I am still determined as always, because I suddenly found that I was deeply obsessed with this sadness. After breaking up, the two of you are still working together, and your hearts are always influenced by each other.
Then it’s time for you to find a partner. This affects your mood and your work!
It’s not that the new love isn’t good enough, it’s that it doesn’t last long enough. How can I forget my colleague when they are still working together despite their breakup?
Why should we forget? It’s not about the result but the process. What can’t be let go? We met, but he doesn’t love me, how should I face it?
It’s too familiar, but it’s not easy to get “electric shock”. Just like my wife often said, “There is no scenery nearby”, and then spend money to buy it and feel uncomfortable. Travel to distant places.
For your current problem, you have no choice but to take the route of "growing in love over time". "Ask him for advice" more often. Pretend to be stupid so that you won't suffer. It's better for women to be "stupid". Firstly, it can satisfy his machismo (sense of achievement); secondly, when he gets acquainted with him, he can increase his favorability.
Will Zhang Jie and Xie Na still work together after marriage?
Zhang Jie said in an interview that he should try to reduce the number of people on the same stage. It should be for a longer term.
I dreamed that the boy I worked with looked at my breasts
I think about you day by day and dream about it at night. If you are always thinking about other people during the day, you cannot let him look at your breasts when you are dreaming. We broke up two years ago. How should I face him when we meet and work together again
Face it bravely. Now that we have broken up, you can no longer be a couple
You can no longer be friends, so just do it The most familiar stranger
Just say hello when you meet him
There is no need to avoid him deliberately
If you avoid him, you can only let him He thinks you haven’t let go of this relationship
After breaking up for so long, both of you must have gotten used to not having each other
So just let it be and don’t pay too much attention to it. How to write it in English?
have worked together (before) before is redundant. How can we get over working together after breaking up?
Always remember that you are colleagues
Others None of them
As for the past, that is all in the past
You can talk to him alone
From now on, we will be colleagues
Meet I still have to say hello
But it has nothing to do with feelings
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