After ten o'clock in the evening, which three kinds of middle-aged women who often make friends are "loveless"?

Although many people have closed the circle of friends function of WeChat now, it is mostly because it is too time-consuming or unnecessary, but quite a few people are used to making friends.

Who are the people who send friends?

We only send friends to let others know what we want to express, that is, our demands. There are also a few people who are just venting their emotions, but without exception, they are all explaining one thing. It is the circle of friends that reflects their emotional demands.

When we want to know a person, we can know what she is thinking and what kind of person she is through her circle of friends.

Many people are used to reflecting their true side in the circle of friends, especially after 10 at night, when our brains are at their most relaxed. At this time, people will always recall the past. Once people fall into thinking, they are prone to mood swings.

When women reach middle age, most marriages are dull or full of troubles. The other half around her often doesn't understand her and makes her suffer. At this time, women often can't sleep at night I have too much to say in my heart, but I have nowhere to talk.

Friends circle often becomes their emotional resting place, just like an emotional tree hole, allowing them to vent and spit.

After ten o'clock in the evening, women who often send these three kinds of friends are mostly "loveless"!

The first kind: dissatisfied with life.

Most middle-aged women have had emotional experiences. The unhappy marriage and feelings make middle-aged women feel physically and mentally exhausted. In middle age, I found that marriage was far from what I expected, and it was inevitable to lose it.

Friends around me are better off than themselves, either economically better than themselves or married a good husband. Middle-aged women often like to compare themselves. By contrast, they find themselves the worst. Look at the men around you, the more you look, the less pleasing to the eye.

Women will think: after being together for so long, people choose by themselves. Middle-aged people can only do this, but they are still unwilling and unable to vent to their husbands, so they have to find someone to talk to online.

Most of these middle-aged women are unhappy in marriage, and there is little emotional communication between husband and wife, and husbands rarely feel sorry for their wives. With such a man, women's happiness will only be less and less, and men don't know.

The second kind: the dynamic expression of loneliness.

Many middle-aged couples live apart for a long time, or sleep in separate rooms for a long time. Once there is no close contact between husband and wife, the emotional communication between them will also decrease, and women will feel lonely if their emotional needs are not met.

Loneliness may be common to single people, but for many lonely women in marriage, it is impossible for them to digest.

Not being understood by her husband, being refused to communicate by her husband, not being cared for by her husband, and not being accompanied, all these make women very painful. During the day, they have jobs and friends, but after ten o'clock in the evening, this loneliness will arise.

Friends circle is their way of venting. Even if no one comforts, at least someone listens. For those who are lonely inside, a circle of friends is a tree hole.

The third type: developing "chicken soup for the soul"

When people reach middle age, they will like "chicken soup for the soul" more and more, looking for spiritual sustenance from it. Many young people find chicken soup for the soul untrustworthy, and they are more accustomed to believing in themselves. However, when people reach middle age, we will find that many things are not arbitrary.

When a person encounters setbacks and cannot heal herself, chicken soup for the soul is like a touch of sunshine in winter, which makes her feel warmer.

Middle-aged women often experience many things, especially setbacks in marriage. If they don't feel love in marriage, they will transfer their feelings to "chicken soup for the soul".

The circle of friends is familiar to us, but not everyone can observe a person's inner world from it, preferring to regard the circle of friends as a pastime.

In fact, people's emotions are many, but we are all used to hiding our true selves in front of people, and the circle of friends reflects our true selves.

Middle-aged women often send the above three kinds of friends circle after 10 pm, most of which are "lack of love". If the woman around you has these three behaviors, you might as well give her more care.