What should I do if my son and Lao Tzu have a bad relationship?

Father and son have a bad relationship. As a son, no matter how dissatisfied you are with your father, you should be rational and then communicate with your father emotionally. You can tell all the injuries, grievances, pains and anger he has caused you, and let him know why you hate him. At the same time, you can also listen to his feelings and thoughts about what he has done. No matter how much hatred you and your father have, I hope you can really get to know each other through emotional communication and then resolve the contradiction between you.

The father is too harsh on his son, so the son can ask the "authoritative" people around him for help. China is a country that attaches great importance to the culture of filial piety. If a son doesn't respect his father, even if his father goes too far, many people will blame him and think it's his fault.

Therefore, if you meet an excessive father, you'd better ask some "authoritative" people around you to help you solve the problem between father and son. You can invite your respected elders or some local leaders to mediate the contradiction between you and your father.

A son and a father are like enemies. There must be a reason why a son hates his father. For example, some fathers turned a blind eye to their son when he was a child and often gambled outside and didn't go home. They only care about their own happiness. When they are old, they always ask their son for money and go to his work unit to let him buy a house for the elderly. How can a son not hate such a father?

Therefore, if your father has a bad record, you should learn to separate from your father. Your father is your father and you are you. Everyone is an independent individual, and everyone has their own tasks. Don't deny yourself and give up on yourself just because your father is not good. As long as you are separated from your father, you can certainly create your own life.