Shortly after marriage, my husband asked me to help his mother wash her feet and gave many reasons. Should I go?

For a newly married woman, the biggest challenge she faces is not how to manage the relationship between husband and wife, but how to handle the relationship between herself and her husband's family.

I didn't understand it before I got married. At that time, I naively thought that marriage was between my husband and me. As long as our relationship is harmonious, my future marriage will always be happy.

It was not until something happened shortly after my marriage that I realized that married life was not as simple as I thought. If you want a harmonious relationship between husband and wife, you must first handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Before I say anything about my marriage, I have to say something about my husband's family.

My husband's father is the leader of an enterprise, and my father is his subordinate. Working together all the year round, my father knows her husband's family very well. Soon after I graduated from college, my father began to set me up with my husband.

In fact, I know my father's intention in my heart. He just wants me to marry a rich and powerful husband's family. I am a highly educated woman with my own ideas and principles, so I didn't want my parents to get involved in my marriage and feelings at first.

In my eyes, love and marriage are the most important things, and I don't want to lose the right to choose. Fortunately, my father didn't force me, he just gave me advice, and he would still give me the final decision.

When I first met my husband, I was moved by him. On the surface, he is elegant and charming, but in fact he is a rude person who speaks without thinking. In his words, he doesn't believe in love. In his eyes, marriage is to satisfy parents' wishes.

Seriously, although my husband said something he shouldn't have said the first time we met, I wasn't angry. On the contrary, I like his frankness. In my opinion, his seemingly rude personality may just suit me. In addition, he was also very kind to me later. He promised me a long time ago that I would live a happy life without food and clothing.

After about half a year together, I gradually acquiesced in my relationship with my husband. My father took me to see my husband's family before, and they were all very satisfied with me. And my father praised me in front of them as a virtuous and virtuous girl.

My relationship with my husband soon came to fruition with the help of my father, and our wedding was held smoothly half a month ago.

After marriage, my husband and I lived alone in a building. Usually I work in a nearby unit, and my husband is looking for relationships everywhere to start his own business. Although our little life is very dull, the relationship between husband and wife is very harmonious.

A few days ago, my mother-in-law came to see us with some fruits and vegetables. Because my husband was very busy those days, he didn't have time to send her home that day, so she stayed at our house that night.

After cleaning up the kitchen, I made a basin of water to soak my husband's feet. I think he was very busy these days, so I decided to let him have a good rest after soaking his feet. After I entered the bedroom, my husband was already lying in bed. He didn't ask me to soak his feet. But let me help his mother-in-law wash her feet.

Maybe he saw my doubts and explained to me, "My mother has finally come over. It will make her very happy if you help her wash her feet." Besides, your father has always praised you for being virtuous, and now you have a great chance to show yourself in front of my mother. "

After listening to my husband's words, my heart tingled. To tell the truth, I don't know my mother-in-law very well, what's more, her mother-in-law is still in good health and doesn't need me to help her wash her feet at all. But my husband's words are really right. After a short thought, I can only helplessly pick up the washbasin and turn around and walk into my mother-in-law's bedroom.

Fortunately, my mother-in-law didn't ask me to help her wash it. She just asked me to leave the basin of water and then let me go. I really don't know, what should I do if I encounter this situation again in the future?