I just want to talk to you for a while, because I'm afraid.

Just had an argument with Guo Lin.

We are long-distance lovers, but we haven't quarreled for a long time. I can't remember the last time we quarreled. It's rare.

I have always felt that differences are a good thing, indicating that love has not yet run in and needs to be managed with heart.

Now I'm just in love. When I get married, I think there will be many problems.

The reason why I disagree with Guo Lin is "good morning".

Some time ago, Guo Lin sent me an article entitled: Many people say good night to you, but few people say good morning to you. The general content is that people who love you will say good morning to you.

Since then, every morning we wake up and say good morning to each other.

After a few days, she began to say it occasionally, and I said it every day.

To this day, she hardly says good morning.

Because of this, we have different opinions.

My original purpose was to let her continue to say good morning to me, which is also an interaction between us.

Usually we do our own things during the day and basically don't chat, but I will go to see her during the break. For a minute or a second, there is an interaction in my heart, which can be regarded as a long chat.

Ask her why she didn't say good morning to me. She thought I cared.

I care. Every time I say good morning to her, she doesn't answer. I feel a little uncomfortable, as if I were talking to myself. I occasionally get distracted when I study to see if she has come back. If she doesn't come back, I'll keep looking for her during recess. I will feel at ease when she does this.

She always has many reasons not to reply to my WeChat. I also know that she is busy. I haven't let her talk to me for hours. I just hope she can take time to reply: "I am in XXX." Seeing that she is busy, I will definitely not disturb her, and I will immediately end the chat, because as long as she comes back, I will be happy and at ease.

In my view of love, communication and chatting is a necessary way to manage love, especially long-distance love. We don't live together, we can only learn about each other's recent situation through chatting, so as to better understand each other, understand each other's ideas and cultivate feelings.

In her view of love, I only know one thing so far, that is, as long as two people love each other.

Is that enough? I don't think it is enough, and it is far from enough. As long as love is a naive idea.

Love needs to be managed. Of course, there are many management methods, but I think all management methods are inseparable from language communication. Can you know each other's thoughts without talking? Only a few people who have lived together for a long time can do this, and most people have no such tacit understanding.

Guo Lin didn't realize the importance of communication. She always thought it was because I was clingy and scared me.

I have been with her for three years. I don't know her very well and she doesn't know me very well. Seriously, she doesn't like chatting with me, which makes it difficult for us to get to know each other better. I don't know the meaning of many of her actions and words now.

I am afraid that we will break up because of lack of communication. I feel insecure. Even saying good morning to each other every day is enough. Good morning not only shows that I love you, but also shows that I will always be by your side.