What is the experience of online dating, from fantasy to reality?

My love is a love affair in Weibo: from 12 to 13, four years have passed. To put it bluntly, it is "online love", a kind of love from fantasy to reality.

Meeting depends on fate, and staying together depends on people's hearts. Will it be destiny takes a hand if two unrelated people meet inexplicably?

12 years, Weibo was in full swing, but WeChat did not rise. We have to report on Weibo when we eat, drink and sleep. "Wait a minute, I'll send a Weibo." Weibo replaced Renren. Opened a new world for many people. This is especially true for me.

I'm a junior, and I've been thinking about "do you want to take the postgraduate entrance examination" all day. I can consider this small decision for half a month. Finally, I decided to pay attention to many words related to "Xiamen". I met him inexplicably with the interest label of the same city.

"Who are you?"

"Who's calling? You don't know me when you say it ... you don't know me when you say it. " ㈠

"From birth to maturity is a process. From now on, isn't it? "

"Oh, should I? I don't know, maybe "(me)

Now looking back at the previous chat records, it is really full of routines. Two strangers, chatting up and falling in love on the Internet, come together, more often because they can talk.

I met him, and at first, like ordinary people, I reported to each other's home and chatted about my professional interests. I didn't take it seriously afterwards. I send a Weibo from time to time, and under your comments, I quarrel because of their comments. Exchange QQ and care about each other, which is reassuring. At least this person is not a liar.

I met him in May. On the first day, he left his phone number, "Call xxx if you have any questions". I thought he was joking. After being together, I asked him about the phone call. He said he was drunk when he met me at the wedding reception that day. He just thinks it's boring to brush Weibo. Unexpectedly, he met me.

In August, when I came back from the summer vacation, I started intensive internship, but my relationship with him improved by leaps and bounds. The more two people talk, the more they talk. It's early morning when QQ chats. I really don't know what you said. Later, I got to know each other and exchanged photos. He helped me to revise the copy. My knowledge of ancient Chinese is still profound and I have some talent. I told him that I liked Xiamen, and he sent me a map of Xiamen University. Coincidentally, it happened to be Tanabata.

If we can talk, love will come quietly. You can't help but wait for him to go online and talk about the situation in recent days. From daily life to work chores, he has been sneaking into my life.

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Two people who can talk are more spiritual communication. If you can talk mentally, you will realize a * * * voice in your mind imperceptibly.

Two people often chat for hours without taking the bait. When it comes to being serious, he will say, "Sister, if you were in Xiamen, I might chase it again. It's too far." I realized that I seemed to like him a little, and so did he.

Until the end of August, one day, he said, "I have been poisoned, and I won't hesitate any longer." My whole body is shaking and my fingers are shaking. I have read that sentence several times. I didn't know at that time that love came quietly. I, quietly fell in love on the internet.

The first time we spoke on the phone that day, when the other party said "hello", I was a little in a trance. In the dormitory, I stood for a while, lay down for a while, and walked around for a while, resisting the waves in my heart. I said a lot the first time, but now I forget all about it. I changed my ears again and again until my ears were numb, and then I looked out of the window. It was already night. We both lost track of time and talked for four or five hours.

"I only know Monet once, but I know him occasionally." I wrote this sentence in my diary by phone that night. I also made a bet with myself in my diary: "just gamble once, okay?" If we are together, we will go on. "

In September, with his encouragement, I began to review. And the two of us, also affirmed this relationship. My heart is full of anxiety, online dating, and some inexplicable worries. When my roommate asked me, I lied and said, "I knew him from the beginning." I'm scared, even a little scared. After all, online dating is always so unreliable.

From September to December, for four months, I reviewed crazily: I forgot to have a rest at the weekend. From Monday to Saturday, it is already 1 1 p.m. every night from the library to the dormitory. He calls me on time every night and asks me how my review is going. On the weekend night, two people video chat. On my 22nd birthday, 108,000 miles apart, he ordered roses and chocolates online.

Unreal love lasts too long and you will feel unreal. Many times, we both have a little inexplicable persistence. When I first met her, it was still hot. After a long time, it will feel too unreal.

After four months of hard work, I finally got nothing, and my grades were terrible, just enough for 300 points.

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Online dating for four months, inexplicably asked to meet.

20 13, 1, June is the last winter vacation of my senior year. In the days when I miss him, I copied all more than 1000 messages in my diary. I am a Scorpio, and I am very persistent in love. I am more like a fool, flipping through text messages and remembering love letters.

I still couldn't help meeting him, netizen. Ten days before the Chinese New Year, I lied to my parents that I was going to Shenzhen for an internship. Where is the internship? It's almost Spring Festival. What internship can I find? My parents trusted me very much, so I got on the train easily.

I finally wanted to see him, but I was inexplicably afraid. What if he's a bad guy? Will it kill female college students like the news said? One more headline and my life is over.

I met him, deja vu, just as I imagined. He is a little shy and can't even hold hands, let alone hug. Help me arrange accommodation and play with me. As a result, my family found out and had to leave within one day.

From the first meeting, the two sides can be said to be long-distance love. No one thought it would be possible to be together, and they said goodbye every time they met. I go to university in Urumqi, and he works in Xiamen. We met in Weibo, but our hometown is the same place. /kloc-In the Spring Festival of 0/3, I ran out to see him again, and the breakup failed. Two days later, it was Valentine's Day. I went to the railway station to see him off. It was a short meeting, only two hours, and we only had eyes for each other.

On February 20th, I went to Hangzhou for an internship. On the train, two people chatted and talked about breaking up again. He let me watch a Chinese odyssey, saying that this love is too illusory and unrealistic. There is no hope for my postgraduate entrance examination, and it is even more illusory to be with him. I should also give up and go to Hangzhou to find an internship.

In April 14, I went back to school to defend my thesis, but he came to Hangzhou. I made it clear, but I didn't discuss it at all, so I started a long-distance relationship separated by hundreds of thousands of miles. In June, I graduated and wanted to know him thoroughly. I flew to Xiamen to see where he lives and works.

Is it suitable for two people? What is his life like? It's not just meeting and chatting. Is he willing to take you to meet his friends? Or, do you really know his life?

I broke the distance limit for the first time and lived together for a month. After my graduation trip, I returned to work in Hangzhou. After I confirmed that he was the man, I packed my bags and came to Xiamen in September 13.

Some people say that people talk about a desperate love all their lives. I think I have done it, which is a bit vigorous.

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We live together, live together. I found a new job, and everything became familiar in this strange city.

I always thought that two people were finally together. From fantasy to reality, the prince and princess lived a happy life. How can life still torture people? We have encountered many problems, from falling in love to getting married. Falling in love and getting married are really two different things.

We have encountered many problems that couples will encounter: do you want to buy a house? What if both parents disagree? What about life after this?

I used to feel that this feeling was wrong, even with countless regrets and fantasies, "What would it be like if I had never met him?" I found that in this strange city, I had nothing but him. Because a person loves a city, and that city is me.

I really want to give up, start over and leave this city. I can avoid any problems. /kloc-in June of 0/6, I left him to travel. Come back two months later, he didn't complain. "Can you stay and help me solve the problems one by one? Don't run away?" I promised him.

If you just want to escape all the time, how to solve the problem? In this world, the only person who can really save you is yourself. Never meet again, who met who, never right or wrong?

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This involves a question, online dating, reliable?

Online dating is coming. How many people can really be together? The answer is very little. If you are destiny takes a hand's people, please cherish each other.

Is online dating reliable? To some extent, it is quite reliable. One thing, the two sides are in love at the spiritual level. Love in reality begins with face value, loyalty to talent, and investment in character; Love in fantasy begins with talent, loyalty to face value and falling into character. Illusion is different from reality, and two people communicate more from the spiritual level. Before meeting each other, the two sides knew each other's preferences and were even impressed by each other's talents.

Some people are curious about the phenomenon of "online dating". In fact, what is there to be curious about? It's strange that two people who can chat don't spark each other. Talking well has brought us closer.

But whether online dating can come together depends on whether you are hiding anything from each other. If this is cheating, or if you can't guess the other person from the chat, this is also the most dangerous. What kind of people you meet depends on your vision, and the same is true on the Internet.

Network, virtually makes two strangers, from impossible to possible. Whether we can really be together is not only fate, but also honesty.

Online dating, from fantasy to reality, is a bit of an inexplicable adventure and challenge. It will always come when you meet it, you can't escape it, you can only solve it. Nothing is smooth sailing, life has twists and turns everywhere, especially online dating.

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