A boy says he likes you but doesn’t do anything

A boy says he likes you but does nothing.

A boy says he likes you but doesn’t do anything. Love cannot be just words, it has to be actual actions. , In the past, many people said they liked me, but they did nothing. This kind of liking was even cheaper than the hawking on the roadside. It takes two days to like you and three days to fall in love. If you can’t catch up in seven days, then goodbye. The following is a boy who says he likes you but does nothing. A boy says he likes you but doesn't do anything 1

I saw a Weibo topic before, the content was a boy's confession to a girl, but it instantly aroused heated discussion among netizens.

The content of the conversation is that a boy directly confessed his love to a senior sister. He sent the words "I like you" to the senior sister. It stands to reason that most girls will be a little excited when they see such a reaction. . But the senior's reply was just one word. The junior at the back asked the senior why she was so cold.

The senior sister sent a sentence that instantly made the boy speechless. The content is: If you are hungry, go eat by yourself. If you have no clothes, go buy it by yourself. If you have a cold, go to the hospital alone. When you are bored, you can find something to do by yourself. When you have no money, you can do part-time work by yourself.

This has nothing to do with you at all, so why should I be passionate about you? Do you just say I like you? Stop being ridiculous?

After reading this post, the following is full of replies. One netizen said this: "It's your own business to like someone, but your love only stays in words, and you have to ask others to show their love." If you respond, then this kind of love is too superficial."

Casual remarks can only move yourself at most, but not others. We are all past the age of hearing about love. Only what we truly feel can be called love.

In fact, I often read a lot of private messages in the background, all of which are seeking emotional problems. Most of them complain that the other party is not caring enough and proactive about me, but I have never thought about why the other party is like this?

I remember a boy said this. He said that he said good morning and good night to the girl every day, would take the initiative to chat with her, and would remind her to eat on time, but the girl was still very cold towards him. Later I replied to him and asked him if he had taken any practical action to care about her.

For example, bring her breakfast in the morning, take her to the doctor when she is sick, take her to relax and stay with her when she is sad. After asking these questions, the boy said nothing. He probably realized that his love was just a superficial phenomenon. The love he said was touching, but he could only be moved by himself.

The love that girls want is always true care and companionship. Words of love alone cannot move people. So stop saying you like someone but never do anything.

Summary:

We are all adults, and it is no longer the time when we are so simple that we are moved when we say we like it, and we are willing to sacrifice ourselves regardless of our own safety. And now the only criterion that can test true love is actual actions.

To see if a person likes you, it depends on what he has done for you? True liking and love is not to hear him say how much he likes you, but to see what he has done for you. Just put away the love you talk about. A boy says he likes you but doesn’t do anything 2

I’ve heard this love saying: The cruelest thing in the world is not not meeting the person you love, but missing it after you meet him. .

When you like someone, you will want to take the initiative to get close to that person, enter the other person's world, and enter the other person's heart. It takes a process from liking to being together, but not all those who like can be together. Sometimes it is clear that you like the other person very much, and the other person also likes you very much. In fact, there is only one confession between the two parties, but the other person always He was not proactive at all and never spoke.

Sometimes girls feel that if a man doesn’t say anything, if he takes the initiative to express his love, there may be a good ending. But this is not the case:

I remember that there was a female classmate who liked the boy very much, so she took the initiative to write a love letter. As a result, the boy not only did not accept her, but also made her the laughing stock of the class. .

In life, if a man likes you but never wants to express it, it may be due to the following reasons. Don’t get hurt stupidly again

1. Just talk to You are ambiguous

Some boys are warm men and are warm to everyone, which is equivalent to central air conditioning. But he doesn't mean that he only likes one woman, he likes many. He just likes the feeling of ambiguity, because he feels that he doesn't take the initiative or refuse and doesn't have to take responsibility. This feeling is actually quite good.

Xiaoli likes a boy. He is more handsome and taller. He always talks to her and helps her. The two of them have also gone out to play together and watched movies. There is a close relationship between the two of them. Too bad to confess.

But the boy has never confessed his feelings. Xiaobai feels that he cannot miss such an opportunity and should take the initiative. So she took the initiative to confess her love to the boy and expressed her thoughts. As a result, the boy said: You are overthinking, I just regard you as a good friend.

I have to say that such a male god is actually quite a scumbag. If you like it, the two of you will be together; if you don't like it, don't be ambiguous and just draw a clear line. This feeling of giving people hope and disappointment is the most uncomfortable.

If a man likes you but doesn’t express his feelings, he may just like to have an affair with you, and may not really like you. If he encounters you, just leave as soon as possible

2. He doesn't just like you

Some men are good to one woman and other women. He likes the feeling of being sought after by others and has no real feelings at all. But the girl she flirted with wanted to be with him. He was the one people often referred to as Neptune.

Xiaozhen has met such a boy before. The boy likes her very much. He also says that she is the most beautiful girl in the world. He also buys her delicious food and takes her shopping. Movie. So he rejected all suitors and wanted to be with a boy.

But the boy refused to confess his feelings. Later, when I accidentally saw his mobile phone, I discovered that he was not just talking about himself, but also many girls at the same time.

When you truly fall in love with someone, you will be devoted to that person and cannot hold anyone else in your heart. If some men are with a woman but do not express their love, then he may like more than just that person. It's just you. He won't give up the entire forest for a small tree.

So when getting along with the opposite sex, if a man doesn’t really like you, just leave as soon as possible and don’t wait stupidly anymore

3. Treat you as his Spare tire

Sometimes men think that it is better not to confess their love. They should treat women as their spare tire first. When they meet someone they really like, it will not be too late to confess their love. Xiao Wu is such a person. He says he likes quietness, but he never expresses his feelings.

She also always advised her not to think too much. When Jing Jing had intimate actions or close contact with other people, he would act like a boyfriend and was particularly unhappy, so Jing Jing said: She gave up on a lot of people. But in the end, I realized that I was being used as a spare tire by him.

When you are in love, you should be completely together and be devoted to the other person, because no one wants to be a spare tire.

For the person who says he likes you but doesn’t confess, don’t wait any longer. To be honest, he doesn’t actually like him that much. If he likes you, he would have confessed to you long ago. Never give up the entire forest for a tree, and don’t give up the entire ocean for a small fish, because it’s not worth it. A boy says he likes you but doesn’t get anything. Do 3

If a boy doesn’t take the initiative to contact you, does it mean he doesn’t like you?

1. Is he hot and cold to you?

If you chat with this boy, this boy will always be hot and cold. Sometimes he will take the initiative to find you, and sometimes he will talk to you all day. He has an ambiguous attitude towards you, but he never responds positively.

You have been wondering whether he likes you, and then the boy may use you as a spare tire or entertainment object.

He can be hot and cold towards you, which means that he will chat with you based entirely on his mood and needs.

When he wants to chat, he will come to you. He doesn't have time to pay attention to you when he has something to do.

He puts his feelings and needs first. Therefore, the frequency and timing of your chats are random.

He has almost no energy or affection for you, so you cannot feel that his attitude is serious and concerned.

People who really like you, even if they are busy, will tell you what they are busy with first;

Even if they do not come back to you in time, when they feel that you are unhappy, It will also be explained to you.

They will coax you patiently instead of ignoring your emotions, letting you think wildly, and refusing to give you a sufficient sense of security.

Things like this, men and women are the same, like each other from all kinds of details,

will make you feel cared for and needed, rather than letting you be immersed in it all the time In doubt and fear.

2. Whether to respond to your negative emotions

When a boy doesn’t like you, this is a very important sign: he is unwilling to help you digest your negative energy and ignores or ignores it. Your emotional needs, just export his emotions to a project,

Or just chat with you about happiness and happy things.

For example, if he is in a bad mood, he will chat with you, and you stay up late with him, comfort him patiently and gently,

encourage him, take care of his emotions, and finally make him feel Better.

But when you encounter something unhappy and seek comfort and companionship from him, he will either pretend to be busy and not see it at all.

When your mood is over, he will coax you again and ask you what's wrong.

At this time, you don’t want to talk anymore; or simply ask you not to think too much, or change the topic with a casual and perfunctory attitude.

When boys who don't love you contact you again, they're usually just asking for your affection.

They want a feeling of being loved without being responsible.

They just need care, companionship and encouragement from girls.

They only enjoy the sweet and happy time of ambiguity, rather than contact you because they like you.

You should know that for someone who really likes you, your vulnerability and helplessness in front of him is his opportunity.

On the one hand, he is really distressed and concerned. On the other hand, he will seize this opportunity to improve his relationship and make your relationship go further.

Love is not only sweet, but also painful.

People who don’t want to accept your negative emotions must be those who never wanted to be with you for a long time.

3. Do you just talk but not do anything?

Why are scumbags so lovable? Because scumbag men are considerate and understand what girls are thinking,

They can grasp girls’ psychology well and take care of girls’ feelings in all aspects.

To put it simply, It means that it can provide girls with high emotional value.

Therefore, some scumbag men can quickly capture a girl's heart with just sweet words.

However, to judge whether a boy really likes you, it is useless to look at what he says.

When he feels something, he can say what he vows to do.

If online chatting is too frequent and too sweet, it will give people the illusion of love.

However, this does not affect the freshness.

After that, his impatience, determination, and indifference to you are very vulnerable because the price is too low.

We will like a person more and more.

One of the important reasons is that we invest more and more in this person, including money, time, emotion, energy, etc.

The deepening of emotions is a process. The higher the investment cost, the more importance and importance the two people attach to the relationship.

Therefore, to judge whether a boy really likes you, we must not only look at what he says, but also what he does.

If he says he loves you, but he would rather play games than be sick with you, how much does he love you?

If he says every day that he will give you a good life, but now he is not willing to spend any money on you,

then you really foolishly believe that he will in the future. Does it cost you a lot of money?

People who really like you will not only say and promise, but also take action to eliminate your insecurities

Put it into practice so that you can feel it without any doubt or hesitation like. 4. Did he give you what he lacked?

Next, he did it for you, but it was not what you wanted? Or is he just wishful thinking towards you?

To see how much a person likes you, he will not only give you what he does not lack, but also not be stingy with what you lack.

For example, a boy who has nothing to do all day long and doesn’t want to make progress will spend a lot of time with you every day to make you happy.

He may like you, or he may be idle or bored.

But if such a boy is willing to spend money for you, make money for you, and give you what he doesn’t have

If he is willing to give you what you want, it means that he really likes you. ;

Another example is a boy who is not short of money.

He is willing to spend money to buy things for you, but he will not spend time with you, nor will he care about your emotions.

Your emotional needs are not important to him. How much does he love you?

We always need to achieve a certain level of feeling for something we are not lacking.

However, we can tell at a glance how much this person is willing to sacrifice for you,

to compromise and give in on the things we value.

It’s not easy to meet the right person, do it and cherish it

In the long process of being together, each of us is working hard in our own way to make love come to the end. .

I have worked hard, sacrificed, compromised, and tolerated.

Don’t forget your original intention and hope that love can last forever.

I am Fu Yi, love is too complicated, I will help you sort it out.