I feel particularly stressed. My father-in-law is so lazy that he doesn't even have a house for the aged. Others look down on him. Mother-in-law had an accident, and we were responsible for everything

I feel particularly stressed. My father-in-law is so lazy that he doesn't even have a house for the aged. Others look down on him. Mother-in-law had an accident, and we were responsible for everything at home. My father-in-law is old and has retired from society. You can't expect him to earn much money. Of course, he has to rely on his son when he is old, and so do his adoptive parents. My mother-in-law had a car accident, and she had the pain of losing her wife in old age. She already knew her fate. Although the pressure is great, we must persist. Don't look down on your relatives, don't help them, don't laugh at them. They are no longer worthy of being your relatives. I live my own life, not my relative. Solve the problem step by step.