Night reading丨Be kind to yourself as you age slowly

It is said that the rest of life is too fast. Before I have time to say goodbye to yesterday, I am pushed forward by time. Before I have time to be young, I am old.

Yes, time does not stop and time does not spare anyone. Life is just about living one day at a time.

Counting the first half of my life, I have enjoyed warm company, tasted a person's loneliness, experienced the joy of meeting, and experienced the pain of parting.

Now that I am getting older, I have passed through all the storms, and I have seen clearly the ways of the world. In the remaining time, live a more free and easy life, and be more relaxed.

Don’t care too much about the opinions of people around you

There is not much time to waste in this life. Don’t worry about unimportant things, and don’t be sad for unworthy people. Life is It is your own, and there is no need to deliberately cater to the eyes of others.

You must know that it is difficult for one person to fulfill the wishes of a hundred people. What others think and see is their business and we have no control over it.

There are all kinds of things in the world, whether it is love or friendship, they will come and go if they don’t, so there is no need to be too demanding. The most important thing in life is to make yourself happy.

Life is in a hurry, stop trying to please and accommodate others, live your life however you feel comfortable, and bravely pursue the life you want.

Learn to face all things with a normal heart

When I was young, I pursued the romance of romance. Later, as time passed, I gradually discovered that the plainness of a long and steady stream of water What's more valuable is that the love, hatred and resentment in the past are no longer important compared to the food, rice, oil and salt in front of us.

A lifetime, a moment.

If you look down on fate, you can gather and disperse as you like; if you look down on gains and losses, you can be at ease and calm.

Since there is no way to escape or hide from the chaos of the mortal world, then face it indifferently and look at everything with a normal heart.

When you reach this age, don’t pursue those vain things. Life can never always go as planned. It is enough to live a simple life in peace and tranquility.

When you are alone, you must take care of yourself

In this world, no one can be with us all the time. There is always a way. If you have to walk alone, there are always some things. You have to do it yourself. Therefore, you must learn to comfort yourself when you are sad and give yourself warmth when you are lonely.

What we grow is age, but what remains unchanged is a heart that is kind to ourselves, does not care about, and is not entangled. Even if we get older, we can still live well, even if we are alone, we can live well. lively. Time flies, so don’t neglect yourself because you are busy.

Try to follow your heart, do what you want to do, and see the scenery you want to see.

For the rest of your life, be a person who loves life and be kind to yourself as you age.

Don’t care too much about the opinions of the people around you, face everything with an optimistic attitude. In this way, you can live calmly and grow old gracefully.