Many things are not as beautiful as you think. When there is a gap, how should we adjust our psychology?

Tell yourself it's not over yet. Now it's just an obstacle. There is always a time when the rain clears up.

We always fantasize that we can change our lives, but most people are often changed by life. Life is not as beautiful as imagined, and there will always be many gaps in life. At this moment, we need to tell ourselves that everything will get better and better, and we just met with difficulties on this road.

Everything will be the best arrangement. If it's not good enough, it's not over. When I just graduated from college and entered the society, I always imagined that I could sit in my office and reprimand Fang Qiu, and a group of people would do things according to my ideas. But after really entering life, I find myself just the kind of person who does things, and it is still far away to really have a career.

This sense of gap is really maddening, and this dimension reduction blow from life always makes people feel that life is boring. But at that time, I always comforted myself. Life will definitely get better and everything will develop in a better direction. Now I just met a small obstacle.

Although this is just the spirit of Ah Q, I have to admit that it really works at some time.

Express the gap in your heart, learn to admit your commonness, and life will gradually get better. Many things we imagine are so beautiful only because we overestimate our abilities. When we have this gap, escaping will never solve the problem. We need to truly recognize ourselves and learn to admit our commonness in life, so that life will get better step by step.

After working for several years, I admit that I am just an ordinary person and can't do great things, but there are always people who believe that they will achieve something in this life. Different choices affect the future road. If you don't admit your commonness, you can only bear all kinds of pain and suffering in life.

Many times being in a bad mood is just asking for it, and everyone will have a psychological gap in life. It's just that we have learned to face ordinary ourselves, and those who don't want to come out always think that they will be the protagonists of this world.

Everyone is the protagonist in his own life, but we have never been very important to this world. As long as we can understand this, I think the gap between ideal and reality will not bring too much harm to people.

Only by admitting your weaknesses can you grow up after constantly absorbing nutrition.