On Ten Taboos of Wedding Gifts

First, avoid charging exorbitant prices regardless of the actual situation.

Second, don't be wishful thinking.

Third, as long as the bride price is not returned, it will be avoided.

Fourth, avoid betrothal gifts not for daughters, but for sons.

Five, don't be picky, want a famous brand.

Sixth, avoid seeing money, but turn a deaf ear to things.

Seven, avoid preparing single and double.

8. Avoid sending bride price through intermediary.

Nine, avoid the bride price only for the younger generation and not for the elders.

Ten, avoid the bride price to send children directly to their parents.

On the skills of bride price:

1. Both parties communicate sincerely.

Talking about bride price is not doing business. The two families mainly want their children to live a happy life after marriage, with less routines and sincere attitude.

Step 2 get to know the local bride price

Different regions have different wedding customs, and natural bride price also has different price levels. If you don't know how many betrothal gifts are appropriate, you can refer to the local betrothal gifts.

Couples should reach an agreement first.

Before the parents meet, it is best for couples to communicate well on sensitive topics such as bride price and gifts, reach an understanding and determine a price range acceptable to both sides.

4. Try to negotiate before getting engaged.

It's best to talk about the bride price before the engagement, and don't put it off until after getting the certificate, otherwise both sides will be a little passive.

It's best for the man's parents to speak first.

The bride price is a gift, not a sale. If the woman speaks first, it will be a bit embarrassing. Therefore, it is suggested that the man take the initiative to talk about the bride price, which can not only show your sincerity in marriage, but also respect the woman.

6. If no settlement is reached, the children will mediate in time.

In the process of parents talking about bride price, if there is disagreement, children need to stop it in time and reconcile the atmosphere at the scene. For example, you can say: the food is cold, let's eat first, and then talk about it …

7. After confirming the bride price, don't ask repeatedly.

After the families of both sides have discussed the bride price, it is best not to raise any objection to the bride price, such as thinking that the amount of the bride price is not enough and wanting to increase the number of the bride price. This will make the other family think that you have broken your word, which will lead to bad feelings.