Inspirational stories and life insights: when will you wait until you are in your twenties and don't try to get better?

Inspirational stories and life insights: when will you wait until you are in your twenties and don't try to get better?

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Hope for the best and prepare for the worst.

Hope for the best and prepare for the worst. This sentence is my personal signature that has been used for three years.

When I was in primary school, I knew I was just an ordinary role, without a rich family, with average grades and average looks. Like all sentient beings, I am just a member who can be submerged in the vast sea of people at any time.

/kloc-When I was 0/2 years old, I fell in love with a beautiful dress. When I stood in front of the counter and asked about the price, the salesman said it was relatively high at that time, and then told my mother that I could get a 10% discount. The embarrassed expression on my mother's face made my heart sink, so when the salesman enthusiastically asked me if I wanted to try it on, I shook my head and left the store with my mother.

I still don't have a dazzling array of skirts in my wardrobe, but the regrets left by 12 years old have long since disappeared and become one of my driving forces.

Every girl will never forget one thing at different stages. When she was a child, she wanted a lot of dolls and sweets. When she was a girl, she wanted beautiful clothes and shoes. When she enters the workplace, she wants one or two luxuries.

When I was 22 years old, I wanted a LV bag. This is not vanity, but a girl's pursuit of high-quality life after she became an adult. There is nothing wrong with liking luxury goods, but don't be a slave to luxury goods. It's no problem within your disposable income. Rational consumption can reduce a lot of unnecessary troubles.

My mother once told me that everyone likes beautiful things, but liking and owning are two different things. What you have to do in the future is to get what you want by your own efforts.

What my mother taught me is still very useful today. You can fight for it if you like it. If you don't fight for it, you will never get it.

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I know an awesome author,/kloc-contributed to the newspaper at the age of 0/4,/kloc-worked as a columnist at the age of 0/6, and/kloc-wrote a bestseller at the age of 0/9. However, at the age of 22, she suddenly faded out of the literary world, saying that she wanted to go to the UK for postgraduate study, and now she is preparing to study abroad behind closed doors.

I admire her talent and achievements while I admire her courage to pursue her dreams and know how to choose.

As a peer, I am far less enlightened than her. I once yearned for poetry and the distance, but when I wanted to follow the footsteps of the distance, I found myself unconsciously imprisoned by the secular, not only actions, but also thoughts.

The education I received from childhood told me to be down-to-earth, close to reality, easier to achieve, and never be influenced by illusory idealism.

So I gave up poetry and distance, dragged myself out of my dream world and returned to real life.

As a writer, I don't have her literary attainments. At best, I am just a writer who can write something, let alone become famous at a young age.

/kloc-when I was 0/4 years old, I was still reciting ancient Chinese, reading campus magazines, and occasionally writing small articles but I was afraid to show them to others.

/kloc-when he was 0/7 years old, he first submitted a manuscript to the magazine, but the editor refused it in a plain and euphemistic style.

Only those who have experienced it personally can appreciate the frustration that you worked so hard to code thousands of words, but were killed by a simple sentence. Those scrapped manuscripts are still awkwardly stored in the USB flash drive, and I sometimes wonder if I am really suitable for writing.

But it was because I was rejected that I realized that there were too many competitors in this field, and I could feel more happiness from the simple harvest.

Now I have signed a contract with a well-known private school in China, and the conditions offered by the other party are considerable. Many friends expressed envy and thought I was lucky, but only I knew that if I hadn't insisted on not giving up, I might have given up my dream of literature long ago.

Therefore, we should believe that those tears and sweat shed for our dreams will be rewarded in the end.

On the day when Leonardo won the Oscar for Best Actor, my circle of friends was won by a small margin. Why not do something dynamic?

I am also sincerely surprised that Ty Kannik is a movie that cries after watching it once, and Jack in it makes my girlish heart flood.

Think about it carefully, in fact, many achievements that are glamorous to outsiders, which one has not been achieved at a huge price?

Leonardo missed the golden statuette again and again, and finally got his wish. The story from the small fresh meat in his twenties to the fat middle-aged uncle now reminds me of a classic sentence by Li Shutong in The Story of Yixian: If you never forget it, there will be repercussions.

If you have a dream, pursue it bravely. Don't be afraid that failure is the greatest success.

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When dating Mr. L, I often ask him some silly questions, such as why do you like me because I am not beautiful? Do you mind my being so small? I'm not good at makeup. Will you dislike me or something?

Teacher l always says that you are stupid. If I cared about all the questions you said, I wouldn't be with you.

The height difference between Mr. L and me is 20 cm, and he 1.8 meters. I don't like to wear height-increasing shoes, so every time I stand with him, I hope I can grow another 5 or 6 centimeters, so that I won't look too short.

I used to dress very feminine, I didn't wear makeup, and I hardly used skin care products except facial cleanser and cream.

At first, as described in the romance novel, I wore a simple T-shirt and jeans with white canvas shoes, and my hair was tied into a ponytail casually, and then I went to see Mr. L with my backpack. When ordering in the restaurant, the waiter secretly looked at me, then at Mr. L, and then at unknown so. When I left the restaurant later, I asked Mr. L why the waiter looked at us with strange eyes. Mr. l habitually touched my head and said.

I forgot if I blushed at that time, but for the first time, I was ashamed that I didn't wear makeup and dressed casually.

If Mr. L is 18 and 9 years old like me, others may not care about these details, but I love a big boy who is very mature in clothes and speech. This contrast is a bit funny.

Later, I learned to wear simple light makeup, prepared two pairs of high heels in winter and summer, wore skirts suitable for my age and figure, and changed my backpack into a handbag.

Before we meet again, I will spend 20 minutes putting on a simple light makeup. When Mr. L sees me, he will agree. When I see myself in the mirror, I will feel a little more confident.

I think there must be many ordinary girls like me in real life. They don't have a good face that people will never forget, and they don't have a good life that they can buy in buy buy if they want. But even if they can't afford expensive cosmetics, clothes and designer bags, we shouldn't give up and change ourselves.

It takes 20 minutes and hundreds of dollars to make up, but it can make you look less boring, and what you get is a good mood of the day and the pleasure of others. This is really not a loss-making transaction, not to mention that cosmetics are not disposable.

I once witnessed a girl in her twenties who lost her job because of her appearance defects.

That was the year before last when I was working in a western restaurant. I work part-time with a chubby girl.

Once when passing food, the girl accidentally knocked over the plate and the vegetable juice stained the suit. The guest's tone is very bad. The girl kept apologizing, but she didn't escape the manager's reprimand. The girl felt wronged and wiped her tears directly with greasy hands after being scolded and cried. When she was ready to serve food in the kitchen, the manager told her to get off work directly.

The manager said that we don't need sloppy employees in our shop.

The manager's words are ugly, but they are true. I saw that the girl's face was greasy, thick bangs could not cover the dense acne, and her clothes were stained with a lot of oil stains.

Therefore, in this era of looking at faces, we really need to improve our external image, not to be amazing, at least to make people look comfortable.

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Since the official WeChat account was established in January, many people have left messages for me in the background, most of which are emotional problems, and a few are talking about their troubles in life. I thought about so many trivial questions at first, which gave me a headache. I am not an emotional expert or a psychologist, so let them talk about it. As for whether to reply or not, it depends on the mood. Anyway, when their troubles are over, they will certainly not feel so bad.

But when I see the messages carefully written by fans, I can't just read them, so even if I'm not an emotional expert or a psychologist, I'll talk to them from the perspective of a bystander.

Many people were deeply surprised by my reply, and some even said that it was the first time to receive a manual reply from the official WeChat account. I actually understand this feeling. Because I have left messages for popular writers, but I haven't received any reply. Although I can understand that others must receive countless fan messages every day, it is also false to say that I am not lost. After all, I typed hundreds of words and thousands of words seriously, but it was like a stone sinking into the sea, and it was inevitable that I would have a small knot in my heart.

Therefore, I will take some time every day to reply to the official WeChat account and Weibo's messages and private messages.

My Weibo has more than 50,000 fans. When the information exploded, I received comments and private messages from 10000+. I couldn't type at that time, so I replied directly by voice. These will do. It's crazy that many people have asked the same question. I have replied to that question on Weibo before, but I patiently replied after I got mad.

At that time, my friends said that I was looking for abuse. She said that you didn't get any benefit from writing articles. They also came to Weibo to scold you, and now take the time to give them an explanation. Your dark circles are directly related to these annoying information.

I said with a smile, since I chose this road, I have to go straight ahead.

There is not so much turning back in life, so we can only look back and move forward.

I hope we can all see the beautiful scenery on the way forward. If you meet me, please remember to give me a smile and let's cheer together.

Put it down and there will be no worries.

1, it's not so much that others make you suffer, but that you don't have enough self-cultivation.

2, wrong is a temporary regret, missed is a permanent regret! Don't be afraid of mistakes and misses. ...

I would rather forgive others myself than let others forgive you.

You must tolerate each other's shortcomings. There is no absolutely happy marriage in the world. Happiness only comes from infinite tolerance and mutual respect.

I am rich not because I have a lot, but because I ask for very little.

The world doesn't belong to you, so you don't have to abandon it. All you have to give up is persistence. Everything is for my use, not for my use.

7. It's not that someone bothers me, but that someone's words and deeds make me worry about myself.

8. You have your outlook on life, I have my outlook on life, and I won't interfere with you. As long as I can, I will influence you. If not, then I'll accept my fate.

9. Living in the applause of others is a person who can't stand the test.

10 If you can shout "I don't have to worry about this little thing" 2/kloc-0 times a day, you will find an incredible power in your heart. Give it a try, it will be very useful.

Happiness is to face the light and learn to forget all the troubles and sorrows.

12, mature people need masks. Put it on and face the society strongly; Take it off and be gentle with your family.

13, you can cheat everyone at a certain time, you can cheat some people for a long time, but you can never cheat everyone at all times. This is history.

14, I love you, not because I want to be with you, but because I will never hurt you.

15, never underestimate a girl's curiosity, she can turn a person's comments and replies from last year to the year before! As long as she wants to know.

16. Friendship will die. A love, separated, broke up.

17, maybe one day, you find life particularly difficult, maybe this harvest will be particularly huge.

18, rather than blindly worship others, it is better to admire yourself proudly.

19, when encountering difficulties, never giving up is a timely help. When you are stable, never giving up is a pity. When you are proud, never giving up is the icing on the cake.

If you can let everything go with him, you are a free man in the world.

2 1, the least fun thing in the world is to lie to yourself, especially when you know you can't lie to yourself.

When we were young, we regarded toys as friends. When we grow up, we treat our friends as toys.

23. No one hates love, but everyone is tired of waiting, guessing, apologizing, hurting, and unfulfilled promises.

As long as we live in each other's hearts, death can't separate us.

25, the soul needs to forgive, but it does not mean that it can be unprincipled; The mind needs tolerance, but it doesn't mean that it can give up at will.

26. Anyone can be endlessly kind to a person, provided it is worthwhile.

27. Whether a friend or a lover, when I say "forget it", it actually contains too much disappointment.

28. Your calmness is too cold, and my heart hurts too much.

29. If you always forgive yourself, you will often lose yourself; If you treat yourself well everywhere, you will lose yourself again and again.

You must have a rich heart to get rid of these superficial similarities in life.

3 1, useless things, cheaper again; Don't depend on people you don't love, no matter how lonely they are. Only by enduring loneliness can we remain prosperous.

32. People who are invulnerable to all kinds of poisons are past praying for.

33. The tragedy of a woman is not because all men are bad, but because you are willing to choose a man who is not good to you, blindly guarding his life and waiting for the prodigal son to return indefinitely.

34. This is the superstition of loving mothers and the pseudo-ignorance of weak women.

35, worry about this thing, you cover your mouth, it will run out of your eyes.

36. One person will change and accommodate for another. This is love. Love your lover as much as you give in.

37. Thank God for what I have and what I don't have.

38. A fool always wants others to know him. Smart people try to understand themselves.

39. Why tell one lie and make up ten lies to make up for it?

Please don't treat me like a fool. I don't know some things, but I see them in my eyes and bury them in my heart.

4 1, the world is always worried about three things: what the workplace inspirational once had, what it has now, and what it wants to have.

42. I just miss the past and forget that we are not ourselves.

43. Everything that doesn't belong to you, no matter how beautiful the scenery. For us, we can only enjoy it for a short time

44. Flowers blooming in the dust are more brilliant. Standing in the dust and smiling is more leisurely.

45. Never argue with an idiot. Because he will pull your IQ to the same level as him and beat you with rich experience!

46. People often have the illusion that what they are doing is right.

47. The quickest step is not to leap, but to continue; The slowest step is not a small step, but hesitation

48. Happiness is like sand in our hands. The tighter we hold on, the more we lose. We should learn to let go properly. Only in this way can we keep more happiness.

49. Maturity is not a word or a sentence, but a state of mind, a state of mind and a way to treat life.

50. Life is a lot of desires. Desire is painful if it is not satisfied, and boring if it is satisfied. Life will swing between pain and boredom.

5 1. The environment we live in cannot be changed. The only thing that can change is our attitude towards it.

52. The real journey of discovery is not to discover a new land, but to look at the problem from a new perspective.

53. A simple life is an attitude. When you are calm, you will be calm. If you are not afraid of the long road, you are afraid of being old.

54. For the past year and the years you have lived in this world, there must always be a conclusion: although there will be various disappointments in life, you can still choose between happiness and misfortune.

55. We have many ways to go, some are active choices, some are passive choices.

56. It's always a long time before I know that what I abandoned with my own hands will never be encountered again in the future.

57. Accidental success is more terrible than failure, and not taking risks is sometimes more dangerous than taking risks.

58. Most people will only lose their temper with safe people. Because it's within the safe range. Your subconscious knows that the other person will not leave you. Nonsense is a dependence.

59. Positive things always happen to optimistic people!

60. I am particularly sensitive to intonation when I am depressed, so "how to say" is more important than "what to say".

6 1, don't just live for one person, you can have the whole world in your life.

62. God created fingerprints because he wanted people to know that, in fact, everyone has scars.

63. Time is quiet, talking to you; The trickle of water is with you in the year; Prosperous, you are old.

64. The best things in life are invisible, which is why we close our eyes when kissing, crying and wishing.

65. People who feel inferior in their bones always want to see others make a fool of themselves.

Living in this busy society, I will miss many beautiful scenery because of fatigue.

Holding hands is more meaningful than sharing a bed.

If you wait until everything is certain, you may never achieve anything.

69. You can forget the past, but you must let go.

70. Many things are between "not saying grievances" and "saying melodramatic feelings".

7 1, you don't need too many criteria to choose a lover, just three points: don't lie to you, don't hurt you, and accompany you.

72. You are afraid of something, but do it anyway. This is courage.

73. I have no time to be seriously young. When I understand, I can only choose to grow old seriously.

74. The ideal of life is for the ideal life.

75. There is no need to look back. Who is cursing you?

76. If a mad dog bites you, do you want to get down and bite back?

77. Arrogant people can be saved, but people with inferiority can't.

78. Coming is accidental, and going is inevitable. So you must, with the fate unchanged, with the fate unchanged.

79. People suffer from pursuing the wrong things.

80. We traveled all over the world and finally found that our smile was the most beautiful scenery.

8 1, fate is responsible for shuffling cards, but it is ourselves who play cards!

82. Being alive for one day is a blessing, so we should cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found that someone had no feet.

83. If you let go, you will have no worries.

Personality qq says: Let go and there will be no trouble.

1, it's not that someone bothers me, but that someone's words and deeds make me worry about myself.

There are two kinds of lonely people, one who knows everything and the other who knows nothing.

3. Life is not rehearsed, but live broadcast every day.

4. People who have insufficient blessings often hear right and wrong; Those who have enough blessings have never heard of right or wrong.

You should always thank all beings who give you adversity.

6. Don't forget what you once had; Cherish what you have; Do not give up what belongs to you; What is lost, keep memories; What you want, you must work hard; But the most important thing is to cherish yourself.

7. The pain of unsatisfied desires; Once the desire is satisfied, it is boring and life swings between pain and boredom.

8. The furthest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death, but the second I went online, but you went offline.

9. Youth is a book that you can't close when you open it. Life is a road that you can't go back. Love is a gamble, you can't get it back if you throw it out.

10, take out your complaints and bask in the sun every day, and your mood will not be short of calcium.

1 1, like pi, infinitely acyclic.

12, the world is a big stage, the company is a small stage, the family is the backstage, life is a series, and we are the protagonists.

13, you don't have to ask for a job to do things, and nothing is a job; You don't have to feel virtuous, but complaining is virtuous.

14, if you really love him, then you must tolerate some of his shortcomings.

15, if you can call me every day not to worry about this little thing, you will find an incredible power in your heart, try it, it is very useful.

16, live with a normal heart, treat others with shame, handle things with heart, and identify with Buddha with bodhicitta.

17, put it down and there will be no trouble.

18, every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.

19, it's not pitiful when you know you're confused, and it's most pitiful when you don't know you're confused.

20. Arrogant people can be saved, but people with inferiority can't.

Girl, why don't you try inspirational?

Many people in life envy you, but don't lose yourself. It is better to learn from others' efforts than to envy their good luck. Everything we do, everything we say to ourselves, should have enough reasons to make our hearts feel happy and happy. Girl, why don't you work hard?

Girl, why don't you try inspirational?

Girl, please think about your parents at home. Your parents are ordinary people. They can't pave a road for you, and they don't have rich property. Why don't you work hard?

2. Reality tells us that if a woman doesn't work hard, there are only two consequences: one is an endless vegetable market, and the other is an endless stall, so why don't you work hard, girl?

Girl, why don't you work hard? We are all spectators at the foot of the mountain. You will never have the right to comment on the scenery at the top of the mountain without climbing hard. Stop deluding yourself that girls are princesses. Unless you are born with crystal shoes, you are just an ordinary Cinderella until you earn them. Good morning.

You always wanted to be an excellent person, but you didn't make any effort. People better than you are still working hard, girl. Why don't you work hard?

I want to play when I am young, to recharge my batteries when I am older, and to enjoy when I am older. When I feel at a loss, I know I have to make progress and want to go out to study, but I am afraid of hardship and fatigue. When you really take this step, you will find that you have gained not only knowledge, but also psychological things. So many young and beautiful girls are trying to improve themselves, and so many years old are already the principal's big sister. What makes you feel that you can always stand on the commanding heights without hard work? What makes you feel that you can always be respected? Continue in the future, not for others, just for innocence, and don't want to wait until the day when you really can't jump.

Six, in this short half year, I want to leave my job countless times. However, there are always so many reasons that I can only bear it. I really don't want to talk a lot about the collapse, crying and insomnia in my midnight dreams. In fact, I know that at present, the best way is to persist. The times are developing and everyone is making progress. I often watch some poisonous chicken soup, and the biggest feeling after reading it is: Girl, why don't you work hard! Yes, I should work hard. I must work hard. For my parents, for myself and for the future, I must work hard! However, hard work is really tiring! I just want to vent so much. I dare not say too much to my parents and friends. It's okay once or twice. They'll comfort you. That's too many times, huh! Maybe I hate myself. A sensitive and fragile dead girl.

Seven, girl, why don't you work hard? What a blow! Thank you very much for waking me up when I was about to get drunk.

Girl, please stand in front of the mirror and open your swollen eyes. Take a good look. You're not surprisingly ugly. Put it in the crowd and grab it, girl Please fight like a man. The world won't treat you well just because you are miserable, and life won't lower its requirements just because you step on 8 cm high heels, let alone greet you with a smile just because you are a girl. Why not work hard for a better future? Come on, girl.

Nine, please think about yourself again; You are not amazing, but you can't sing or dance. Aren't you a hero who raises his arm and responds like a cloud? You don't have strong communication skills, and even have a little fear of strangers. Why don't you work hard?

Girl, why don't you work hard? We agreed to study hard in grade three, so that we won't regret it when we grow up, okay?

People who are better than you are working hard. Why don't you work hard, girl!

Twelve, girl, why don't you work hard and want everything? People try their best to meet opportunities. You have lost at the starting point, and you are unwilling to pay the only time and energy you can spare.

Thirteen, why don't you work hard and want everything? You obviously don't want to be content with the status quo, but you are. Girl, please try to live an imaginary life. I am willing to meet my best self at the best time.

14. Girl, why don't you call? Girl, if you don't work hard, who will you dream of? Girl, you must also envy those people you look up to. However, you are not them, you have not struggled like them, so you don't know the road they have taken. People who have good love are not lucky, nor are they finally waiting for the so-called right person, but they are good enough, and they have enough reasons for people to love! What about you? Give up fantasy and work hard.

Sixteen, the place I want to go is far away, and the person I like is excellent. Girl, why don't you work hard?

Girl, your favorite bag is so expensive, and your favorite car is so expensive. Why don't you work hard?

Girl, why don't you work hard? Life won't smile at you just because you are a girl.

Nineteen, girl, there are too many distant places to get up, too many things you want but don't have, but you want a dull life, but you want a material foundation. Why don't you work hard now!

Twenty, it's really hard to see this girl insist on shooting all kinds of materials every day. Occasionally know that it is fresh and long-term persistence and persistence in dreams! Why don't you work hard and want everything! This kind of effort will definitely pay off!

Twenty-one, Mr. Han, people who are 1000 times stronger than you have to work 10000 times harder. Why don't you work hard? Looking around the room, you can only rely on your own mind!

Girl, why don't you work hard, give nothing and want everything? Life will not pity you because you are a girl.

Twenty-three, as a woman, if you are not as capable as Andy, you are not as good at taking care of your family, as hard-working as Guan Yu, as beautiful as Fan, as lucky, why don't you work hard, girl?

Twenty-four, a girl full of positive energy. Coming from the most ordinary family has given countless people, such as me, the motivation to move forward. Yes, such a beautiful person who is still working hard is working hard. Why don't you work hard? Come on! I can do it!

Twenty-five, but now I think everything is worth it. I have heard a lot, seen a lot, said a lot and grown a lot in the past two days. Finally, I just want to say: Girl, why don't you work hard and want everything?