What psychology is a person who loves to talk big!

In life, many people talk big and usually laugh it off. I expected it in my heart. I know that's not true. Just say it. I don't have to pay anyway. But sometimes, the situation is not simple. When the boaster is in a special position, such as when the strong is against the weak, the boaster will easily ferment in the hearts of the weak and produce beautiful illusions. At this time, boasting will have consequences. Of course, people who talk big don't have to pay for the consequences.

I have come into contact with many boasters, most of whom are business acquaintances, and some of whom are peers in life. I am more knowledgeable, so I am more sensitive. It's easy to talk big, and you can rarely get a bargain from me. It's just that this ability was acquired at a lot of money. Moreover, we can only distinguish those who are used to bragging, and we can't distinguish those who occasionally say a word. But it can be prevented. As long as you don't expect special interests, you won't take big talk seriously, which is naturally harmless. Those who talk big are not necessarily liars, although they are all lying, but liars lie to cheat money, things and colors, in order to get other people's things for themselves. The purpose of boasting is only to raise oneself and gain the trust, attention or goodwill of others, even if there is an attempt, it is indirect. Generally speaking, the purpose of boasting is usually simple, and there is no malicious intention to hurt people subjectively. After observation, most people who talk big are used to it. Everyone talks big sometimes, especially when the wine is warm and the ears are hot. Talking big is inevitable, and most others can understand it. Or it's fun to talk big and keep up with the joneses. Of course, occasionally boasting can sometimes lead to right and wrong, and even have bad consequences, but others will not think that you are used to boasting. Only those who often talk big can be branded as braggadocio by others. Why are some people used to talking big? Careful analysis shows that bragging is actually a psychological obstacle and a self-compensation of self-confidence psychology. People can usually get satisfaction from their own big talk, and think it is true, and complete the generation of psychological satisfaction in their own big talk. Therefore, people who talk big actually have little psychological space. A little more will overflow, and a little less will be lost. I am afraid that others will not recognize, value or respect myself, and I am afraid that I will lose the opportunity. So I instinctively use big words to attract and defend. However, due to the small psychological space, it is not easy to control big talk, and jokes and embarrassment often appear. At this time, the braggart will be depressed and demoralized, and the effect is counterproductive. If you want to make psychological compensation for yourself, you will be psychologically hurt. If you do this often, it will easily lead to a vicious circle. Because of the small psychological space, people who talk big are also easy to be killed. Violent praise can also easily make boasters lose their psychological balance and behave abnormally. Therefore, a braggart is not a proper lawyer and debater. Intense psychological confrontation will greatly consume their little psychological energy reserves. They are also not suitable for soldiers and entrepreneurs. Lack of adventurous spirit and inability to command are the talents of such people. Otherwise, why do you need to talk big to make psychological compensation and self-satisfaction? On the surface, a boaster doesn't blush or beat his chest. It seems that they have strong psychological resistance. Actually, it's not. Their psychological defenses are very fragile. Don't blush, don't beat your heart because they are serious at the moment and their feelings are harmonious. Once stabbed, blushing is immediate, even anger and impulse. I like to hang out with powerful people and nourish my emotions on the spot. This is the hobby of a braggart. To this end, they are willing to pay some dignity, provided that the object of payment is the person they are willing to pay. Otherwise, they are also stubborn. Of course, they prefer to be with the disadvantaged groups. At this time, it is time for them to be happy. At this moment, they can enjoy respect and even worship. Therefore, at this time, they don't need to talk big, and they won't talk big. It should be said that most people who talk big are smart and capable, and sufficient imagination is the basis for talking big. And people are not bad, because the psychological tendency to talk big is perfect. Therefore, big talk is chasing beautiful women, not e-lai. Generally speaking, a big talk may miss a big event, but it will certainly not be a big event. Because the psychological space is too small, it is easy to get confused in front of big events. Where there's a will, there's a way. It's hard to achieve anything because what you brag about is ambition. But because the heart is not bad, it is easy to get along with.