Some people never contact, but when they contact you, they just ask you for help. What kind of person is it?

Friends like this are usually fake friends. They don't contact each other at ordinary times, but they think of you whenever something happens. I can only say that such people are better than strangers. They only care about their own interests and feelings. When they think you are useful to them, you will be their ancestor immediately, and the attitude can't be better. People like me, who are enthusiastic and like to help others, are soft-hearted when they hear good words and let them take advantage. I even think I can reconnect with them in the future. One more friend means one less enemy. But when you finished helping them, they disappeared immediately. Even after you go to them and want to interact with them, they don't care about you. I really met such a thing. At that time, I felt as if I had been pricked by a needle. I was so angry that I didn't even fight Suddenly someone asked me to help her with her composition. I would have refused, but as a girl, she was both hard and soft, so I had to agree. That's good, and then I helped her write more articles. After that, I looked for her on WeChat, but she didn't reply. What do you think I am? A machine that helps others without feelings?

They may just think you are easy to talk to, so they will find you to put in a good word for you, and you will definitely help. This is what we usually call a bad guy. I can only describe such a person in two words: disgusting. Don't stick to those who find it a little attractive. They are even more unscrupulous about such behavior, and they will find Lao Zi very attractive. Put in a good word, you have no reason not to help me. People like this who cheat others' feelings with their charm are really scum.

Another situation may be better, that is, they usually take the initiative to contact others, but they really need your help when they are in trouble, and they may think you are reliable or trustworthy. If it is such a person, I can still accept it. After all, he is sincere and does not play tricks.

Therefore, I think we usually meet this kind of person, first of all, we should see whether he is really difficult or just want to use you to help him. It is absolutely impossible to be a bad person.