Why did Ming Lan's temperament change greatly after Ming Lan's little mother died?

Because Ming Lan stood in front of his father and denounced the food that was deducted, his mother was framed by Qi Lin's cream, and Wei Xiaoniang didn't deliver the baby when she gave birth, so she dragged Ming Lan's mother to death.

Wei Xiaoniang said to Ming Lan before she died, "It's a pity that you are too young to live in this yard. I always tell you not to stand out. " In fact, the general meaning of this sentence is "If you are still so young, if you want to live in this yard, don't be attracted by people's eyes and jealousy, but keep a low profile." Wei Xiaoniang, of course, also knows Ming Lan's cleverness. She can guess that Ming Lan will know the cause of her death and may avenge her, so she told Ming Lan to live to the maximum in everything.

Although Ming Lan was young, she understood her mother's meaning and promised to seek her grandmother's asylum to reassure her. Ming Lan was very ill after his mother died. From then on, she realized that she thought she could seek refuge from her father in everything, but in fact, her father was not worth relying on, so she restrained herself and shaped herself into a timid little girl.

1. Don't stand out.

Ming Lan was very clever when he was a child. My mother told Fluttershy to trade her only dowry for some charcoal to keep warm. Ming Lan was distressed that this was her mother's last dowry, so she asked Fluttershy not to pawn the dowry, and she could exchange the original charcoal for some charcoal fire. My mother also knows that Ming Lan is a witty person, but she thinks that Ming Lan is just an illegitimate daughter in Shengjia, and there is no one to protect her, so she hopes not to be too conspicuous.

On one occasion, Changfeng almost lost the engagement of Goose, or Ming Lan won the engagement of Goose by throwing a pot. At this time, Xiao Niang knew that she had been scolding Ming Lan for being too pushy. Ming Lan explained that if it weren't for her, Big Sister would lose the opportunity to hire geese. However, keeping a low profile and being modest will also become a pledge to protect Ming Lan in the future.

2. Just call it Xiao Niang.

Ming Lan has always envied Rulan, because Rulan can be called Mother Niang, but Ming Lan can't. Because Ming Lan is an unmarried daughter, Ming Lan can only be called Xiao Niang. Ming Lan's heart was so eager that he could call his Shouniang, so before he died, Xiao Niang called Wei, but he was slapped. This is to remind Ming Lan to be careful when he does and speaks.

Ming Lan will always remember Xiao Niang's teaching. On one occasion, Moran pushed Ming Lan and Juran out of the front hall. Rulan always said Moran pushed it, but Ming Lan didn't say a word. She knew that disaster came from her mouth. Juran is protected by a big lady and is her daughter. Naturally, this is different from Ming Lan's identity.