First-class couples sleep in separate rooms, second-class couples sleep in separate beds, and third-class couples-

I don't know if you have heard such a jingle: "First-class couples sleep in separate rooms, second-class couples sleep in separate beds, and third-class couples sleep in the same bed."

Sleeping in separate rooms is becoming a hot topic. Although some people are anxious about sleeping in separate rooms, others think that sleeping in separate rooms can keep marriage fresh! Let two people have their own private space.

Actually, I disagree with this statement. Sleeping in the same bed is a matter for husband and wife. Sleeping in separate rooms requires personal space? what do you think?

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My friend and husband were bored when they first got married!

Give a hug and kiss goodbye when you go out every day! The first thing to do when I go home every day is to hug each other. Then tell me what you have experienced all day. Comfort and encourage each other.

Two people cook a simple meal together, but it is so warm that people often feel like eating a big meal!

Sleeping every night is even more holding sleep. Two people always have endless topics and worries. I often chat until late at night before going to bed.

My friend said that I was really happy at that time!

But after the sweet period, life is dull, and the two will quarrel because they can't accept some of each other's living habits.

Although everyone loves to be angry, they don't want to bow their heads and admit their mistakes first. However, as long as you are in the same bed with someone every night, things will always be much easier to solve the next morning.

I think, this is probably the saying "couples quarrel at the end of the bed"!

But friends don't know where they heard it, saying that if couples often quarrel, it may be that there is no freshness between them. Trying to sleep in separate rooms can enhance feelings.

So, my friend decisively slept with her husband!

At first, she felt unaccustomed. Every night, her husband sleeps with her. Now all of a sudden, there is an empty piece next to her. But when I think about it, I can't hear my husband snoring, and no one will grab the quilt with me again. She thinks it's all worth it.

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However, sleeping in separate rooms did not solve their quarrel. On the contrary, the feelings between the two people are getting weaker and weaker. I used to be able to catch up and solve the problem when I fell asleep that night.

But now, although they don't quarrel much, they are too lazy to talk.

Every time a friend just wants to nag, the husband hides in his room and closes the door. Forget what your friend is saying.

This further stimulated her friends, so she began to curse the street with all kinds of bitches. Even suddenly hit the door. But her husband just ignored her.

But in fact, her husband also feels that such a day is very tired, and his wife has become a tigress. Without the gentleness and thoughtfulness of the past, every day is like an explosion barrel.

This made him not want to go home and face her. As a result, many times, although I worked overtime until late, I still went out to drink with my friends and complained about my depression and disappointment with my marriage.

My friend is very transparent. After listening to his complaints, I told him that every marriage is from scratch, from scratch!

My friend's husband realized that since sleeping in separate rooms, he neglected his wife because of his work, and they rarely communicated with each other, even losing the habit of telling their worries before going to bed every day.

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He decided not to sleep in separate rooms with his wife, no matter how noisy he was!

He smelled of alcohol when he came home. A friend smelled the smell of wine on his body and was about to start cursing when the man hugged his wife hard: "Wife, I will never sleep in separate rooms with you again, and I will sleep with you in the future!" " "

My friend relented and never wanted to sleep in separate rooms again. She also wants to sleep with her husband every night!

That night, they hugged each other and told their hearts during this time. At home, at work, after sleeping in separate rooms. Both of them felt more relaxed than ever, and slept more comfortably this night.

After that day, they slept together again Although there will still be some differences and quarrels, these are trivial matters. Because every night, they go to bed 10 minutes, these small problems can always be solved, and their feelings are getting better and better.

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Look! At least, in their relationship, I think sleeping together is a wiser choice than sleeping in the bedroom.

In fact, marriage needs to be managed, but not every model is suitable for your own marriage. Only by finding the problems existing in your marriage and prescribing the right medicine can you play a good role! -End-

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