How to establish a chat session with girls?

Is there such a situation when we are chasing girls? Many times, we obviously want to hold each other's hands, but she always makes herself speechless. Have you ever said where to eat? Girls always disagree with you and don't listen to you. You are always uncooperative in everything you do. If the above situation, congratulations, you must have no other half, you must have no opinion. I can also tell you responsibly that when you encounter these situations, you will not attract any women. When this happens to you, you are likely to become a spare tire. Of course, many people don't know if they are a spare tire.

When you can't catch up with the girl you like, are you wondering if it's because of your poor conditions and low face value? Actually, it's not. Many times, it is because they don't know how to pursue, and when they pursue, they expose their sense of need prematurely, which has caused great pressure on girls. This is very undesirable. We should establish a chat session first. Next, Bian Xiao teaches you how to establish a link to chat with girls.

First, the mood * * *

People will feel more familiar and kind to people who have the same behavior habits as themselves! Therefore, when chatting and interacting, we can imitate a person's various behaviors (such as simple body movements) and habits (such as the habit of sending messages: often using a certain expression, like using ellipsis, etc. ).

In order to achieve the most basic emotional frequency * * * vibration, this will quickly narrow the psychological distance between you and make the subsequent communication with each other more enjoyable! This is also a small skill that Dong Ge often uses in daily life chat! And this kind of emotional vibration is the application of NLP synchronization skills!

But here is a reminder: when imitating each other, don't be too deliberate. Never mind what the other person is doing, just learn how to do it at once, which will make the other person very embarrassed. You can wait for the other person to finish an action, and then do similar actions after a period of time, showing a natural and casual state.

Second, focus on humor and composure.

Everyone knows that humor is an important skill in chasing girls, and it is also the best way to please girls. But we can't focus on humor at the beginning of the conversation. You know, sometimes humor is not humor.

Girls have different personalities and different judgments about sense of humor, so we should get to know them first. For example, communicating with outgoing girls should not be too "serious". If you communicate with introverted girls, you have to be "serious".

On the one hand, there are many boys who come into contact with girls. If you can't arouse her emotions, you won't be recognized.

In addition, because introverted girls have little contact with boys, your glib mouth will only make her feel that you are unreliable and enhance her defense, so we should be more patient with introverted girls and slowly open her heart.

Third, grasp the sense of security and contact feelings.

To attract a woman to like it, it is necessary to establish a sense of connection with her. Can a girl like you if she doesn't care about you?

So don't rush to expose the sense of demand, attract women quickly, and keep a basic connection first.

Women are inherently insecure, so we should work together. The sense of security is mainly based on trust. For example, the performance mode is: you don't just want to have sex with her, not just for fun, because only if she trusts you and is willing to date you will you have a chance to upgrade your relationship and seduce her.

Because it is almost impossible to upgrade the relationship by chatting without meeting, unless your hard value is too strong, but in this case, the value of knowing a woman is not high.

Here are a few useful chat tips.

1: Find a topic

Talk to girls about some interesting things they experienced in school as children. In fact, we have all experienced the same thing, especially when I was a student! This is easy to produce * * *, and it will achieve a feeling that you are particularly familiar with. Then if you want to find more topics, you can learn about his feelings, his family, his years, his hobbies and so on through the dynamics of his social software. You can easily achieve very good results by interspersed these topics in the chat.

2. Unclear upgrade

If you want to upgrade your relationship with girls, you must intersperse ambiguous topics in it. If you don't talk to her for a long time, you can only be regarded as a male best friend by a woman, or sneak into a friendship zone.

3. Numerical display

If you want to attract girls, then you must learn to show your value. This is the most important point. If attraction is not established in the early stage, all the links behind will not go on.

Your face is your second face. If you just share some soul chicken soup and forward some ghost stories in your circle of friends, girls will not pay attention to you. So you should learn to show a very interesting and colorful lifestyle, such as cafes, western restaurants, friends parties, lovely pets and so on. , which can attract girls! So remember two things, a good background and a good image.

Do you have the following problems in your relationship:

I don't know how to chat with girls, and my emotional intelligence is low.

When you meet a girl you like, you say you won't strike up a conversation.

There are girls I like, but I don't know how to chase them.

The girl who has been secretly in love for a long time has been afraid to confess.

You said you were afraid of being rejected by girls after confession.

If you don't know how to ask the girl you want out

I don't know how to touch her on a date.

If you don't want to be single for long, you are eager to get rid of it.

If you don't know how to get rid of being single quickly

I don't know how to make a girl be dead set on you.

There are other emotional problems and I don't know how to solve them.

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