How to improve the family status at home?

Look at the first sentence you wrote, aren't you and your "husband" officially married? If so, why hesitate? Since your salary is not lower than your husband's, why are you subject to others? Why did you give him half of the property? How about no club? You must find out these problems. First of all, you must ensure that you are not bullied at home. You must not be indecisive about this!

With this premise, you will subtly change the atmosphere of this family with your excellent behavior. Respect the old and love the young, be more tolerant and less concerned, consciously learn and share housework, and live in harmony with neighbors. If you are praised, your position in the family will naturally improve.