Brothers are separated, one supports his father and the other supports his mother, and parents support him separately. What do you think of this problem?

Judging from the support for the younger generation, this question seems reasonable. On the surface, it is reasonable and legal for brothers to separate and parents to support one side. But these are the ideas of the younger generation. Have the brothers consulted their parents? If you really ask for the opinions of the two old people, the old people are embarrassed to go against the ideas of the younger generation, and they reluctantly agree verbally.

It stands to reason that parents have lived together for decades and have been living alone. As the saying goes, "Little couple, old friends." When two old people are together, they can talk freely and chat at any time, so that neither of them will feel lonely and empty.

If you are in a good mood naturally, you will be happy if you are in a good mood, and there will be nothing wrong with your health. Isn't that what the younger generation wants? Since two people can achieve good health together, there is no need to separate the elderly!

There is a family in my village. As the title says, the two brothers are separated. The eldest supports his father and the second supports his mother. Because the houses of the two brothers are far apart (about 200 meters), the two old people not only eat separately, but also live separately.

Because my father was seven years older than my mother, somehow, my father had a heart attack and went to the county hospital for treatment for half a month. First of all, the expenses were paid by the boss, which probably cost more than 20 thousand. My eldest son-in-law thinks that his father spent so much money on his illness that he thinks he has suffered a loss. He thinks his father is the same, so he can't be paid by my family. Then I went to the second child's house to judge, and the public said that it was fair, and the old woman said that the old woman was right. As a result, the whole village made jokes. Finally, the two brothers shared the beach medical expenses.

It was about half a year after my sick father was discharged from the hospital. One night, he wanted to drink tea, but he couldn't make any noise. He tried to get out of bed to get water. As a result, he fell to the wall because his feet were soft and his head was thrown out of a big hole. There was blood all over the floor. His eldest son and daughter-in-law got up and helped him. At this time, people are already dead.

The news spread the next day, and people talked about it. They all said, "Two old people shouldn't live apart. If my wife was around and poured him tea in time, wrestling would not have happened. " There is no regret medicine in the world. Now their family can only cry for their dead father several times to express their regret. After the incident, the two daughters-in-law had another quarrel because they supported their mother. Therefore, it is more harmful than good for parents to support and live separately.

So I don't know if it's legal or not, but I definitely can't accept it emotionally.

First of all, our parents raised us when we were young, and we had to adopt our parents when we were old. It should be! You also did pension, but the method is not appropriate! Suppose your parents only have one child, can't you adopt your parents? Or just raise one and not the other?

Second, brothers may be separated for the sake of fairness, and every family has one. But when you were young, did your parents raise one because they were afraid of being tired? Besides, young couples always go together. Old people need spiritual sustenance and emotional companionship. This is how you support your old age, just raising it? Who can talk and chat with parents?

Third, providing for the elderly alone, I feel that I only consider myself, without considering the thoughts and wishes of the elderly at all. I strongly object.

I think if you two brothers want to be fair, you can take care of the elderly for half a year and take turns to support them. You can also ask a nanny to take care of it.

Although it is legal to support parents separately, it is hateful for these unfilial sons, for their own self-interest and to reduce their burden. Under the banner of supporting parents separately. When my parents are old, they originally wanted to enjoy family happiness. What is family happiness? It means that the family is round and round, making money harmoniously! It must be hard for parents to be separated! The distress can be imagined! Only parents can feel it. Poverty inherits the wind!

Therefore, if brothers are separated, parents should not support them separately, let parents live together and help each other, so that the elderly can live happily and spend the rest of their lives happily.

Maybe my thinking is one-sided. Do you have a better idea? Please leave a message below and we will discuss it together.