What mistakes should men avoid when dating?

Although today's society is not so traditional, you can find that there are still many people around you going on blind dates. I have said in many articles that blind dates are a formal date. Remember Living is official! However, many brothers still encounter many problems when dating women. Today Brother Smile will tell you what you should pay attention to during a blind date:

First, be generous. Paying for dinner on a blind date is a sign of a man's generosity and decency, and it can also leave a good impression on girls. At least when you meet a woman for the first time, you need to pay the bill. The women around you don't have a good impression of stingy men. Of course, you are not asked to pretend to be rich and show off in front of women. That will reduce your points. Just do what you should do well, not too much, and this is the case with everything. In the early days of picking up girls, I encountered many girls who lost because of my stinginess. Therefore, brothers, please remember to be generous.

Second, the date is too long. The first blind date is certainly very important for us, but we must clarify the purpose of our date: to leave a good impression on the girl, and even attract the woman, rather than to let the girl get to know us. If you miss, we need to control the rhythm. If you think the girl has a good impression of you, you can stop and proactively say, "See you next time if you have anything else to do." This way, you won't appear needy and will be more mysterious. Generally, our blind dates last about an hour, and never exceed two hours.

Third, let’s talk about parents. Don't mention your parents when chatting with girls, especially the words "my mother said so and so" and "my dad said so and so". It will appear childish and childish. I don't know how to rely on this in the future. man. On the other hand, you haven’t reached the stage of talking about these things yet. You are just at the stage of getting to know and understand them.

Fourth, late. You must be on time for your first blind date, especially as a man. When you go on a blind date for the first time, it is actually rude to make a girl wait. It feels like you don't take her seriously. This deducts points for the first impression. I once had a date with a girl, and she was half an hour late. This made me very unhappy. I believe women will be even more annoyed by being late. A better way is to arrive there a few minutes in advance to wait for the girl. What is even more reliable is to spend some time visiting the place and have a clearer understanding of the place where you are dating, as well as the surrounding situation and environment.

Fifth, talk about your future. During a blind date, many brothers talk to women about their future plans, how they will live, etc. before anything is done. This will make women very bored and seems to be an obvious mistake, but there are still many brothers. Would make such a stupid mistake.

This just seems too fast, as if he has never seen a woman before. This is a sign of low value. No woman will like such a man.

Sixth, the image is OK. Image is the first level in the relationship between the sexes. If a woman cannot pass this level, she is basically dead. Many brothers will say that they are not handsome enough. I want to emphasize to everyone that handsomeness in the eyes of women is not just about looks. Handsome, it depends more on how you clean up and dress up. There are no ugly men, only lazy men, so as long as you take the time to clean up, it's ok. It will be more helpful for you to spend more time and follow some public accounts about fashion.