Why is sex so important?

Why is sex so important? Both men and women believe that sex is an indispensable part of their lives. It is generally believed that sex is one of the most important things for men. Men often choose a woman. When they feel attracted to sex, that's why sex is so important.

Why is sex so important? 1 The reproductive modes of men and women are completely different. Women's reproductive model, because they need to be pregnant and have children, is destined to win not by quantity, but by quality, so as to ensure the survival rate of future generations and pass on genes.

What women want is a stable relationship. They want men to be responsible for themselves. Because of this strategy, they attach importance to the quality of men, including the consideration of men's economy.

Men are different. For men, in the process of reproduction, they need to pay sperm. Other fertility issues do not need to be considered. In ancient times, men would not have a sense of responsibility without the pressure of public opinion. They are willing to win by quantity, which is obviously an effective way of gene transfer.

It is said that sex and philandering are engraved in the instinct of modern men, because if your ancient ancestors had no such consciousness, you would not have been born. This is why men attach importance to sex, because sex is an effective way to pass on genes.

With the establishment of various laws in modern society, men's thoughts are no longer sexual, because there are many social roles, such as father, husband and son.

With the development of society and the perfection of laws, men will gradually separate sex from love. More and more men think that sex and love are equally important, which will take a long time.

Why is sex so important? First of all, let's talk about why sex is so important.

1, Physiology: From a scientific point of view, a man's physiological state determines his desire for sex. After all, male animals are more likely to express their pursuit of instinctive desires, especially when they see the beautiful and sexy opposite sex, and the hormone secretion in the body will become vigorous, which will lead to sexual passivity and naturally want to have sex, which belongs to animal instinct.

2. Psychology: There may be many aspects involved in psychology. Here is only the most understandable one, that is, "men are animals with lower body thinking." As we all know, women may like a person psychologically, while men, in most cases, will judge their preference for women from the throbbing of the lower body. Of course, this statement is not completely accurate, but this idea does exist in male psychology, which is innate and basically irreversible.

3. Health: Actually, sex is not a filthy thing. Many sciences have proved that a healthy and harmonious sex life is beneficial to health, so I won't go into details here. It must be said that men and women with harmonious sexual life are far better than those who are indifferent, abstinent and lack sexual life in terms of mentality, appearance and health.

Secondly, how long it is appropriate for two people to have sex.

This question is difficult to answer. After all, the openness of modern society is too high. Sometimes women are more free than men, and sex is something that two people love. There is no need to communicate deeply when we meet for the first time. Of course, to be responsible for the feelings and future of men and women, and how long sexual life is appropriate, you can refer to these points:

1. Relationship: whether a couple or husband-wife relationship has been established and there is a stable emotional foundation;

2, time: whether there is a long emotional time to precipitate, basically understand each other's behavior, feelings, values;

3, mentality: think about why you want to have sex, is it caused by too deep feelings, or the insertion of an idea, or an inexplicable routine;

4. Consequences: Everything you do has to bear certain consequences, and so does sex. After all, you should consider your future life. Although your body is in batches, sex is a blend of spirit and flesh.

Why is sex so important? Why is a healthy sex life important?

First, sex is a "barometer" of health.

Sex is a barometer of health and a comprehensive embodiment of human health. There are many studies on sex, and the conclusions are surprisingly consistent. Men and women who are interested in sex appeal generally have better health. Studies have found that healthy and emotional spouses can maintain their sexual interest and ability to 70, 80 or even 90 or even longer, and can promote their longevity. I often meet some elderly men in their 80s who still have regular sex lives. These men can see from their appearance that they are in excellent physical condition. For example, the famous painter Qi Baishi lived to the age of 95. He still had sex in his later years. He got married at the age of 72 and gave birth to four children after marriage. Zhang Zhongjing, a medical sage, was 84 years old and had a child when he served as the prefect of Changsha in the Eastern Han Dynasty.

Second, regular and healthy sex life is good for health.

Normal sexual life needs a healthy body as a carrier. At the same time, proper sexual life can promote health and prolong life. Because sexual life is a comprehensive and coordinated excitement process, it can promote the balanced secretion of various hormones, maintain the activity of various functional organs, and delay the aging of sexual organs; Penile erection can strengthen vascular elasticity and make it degenerate prematurely. Medical research also found that regular and moderate sexual life will make the prostate contract and excrete regularly, thus having a health care effect on the prostate. If you don't have sex for a long time, prostatic fluid will accumulate, leading to prostate congestion, aseptic prostatitis, low back pain, frequent urination, urgency and pain. It has been found that people who never marry or abstain from sex are more likely to develop prostate cancer than those who often maintain moderate sex life. For women, sexual life has a positive impact on women's genitals and breasts. Keeping regular sex life can also prevent "disuse impotence" and "disuse vaginal atrophy". Abandoned impotence and disused vaginal atrophy refer to impotence and vaginal atrophy caused by long-term sexual inactivity. Conducive to the prevention of female senile vaginitis.

Third, what is a healthy and regular sex life?

Nowadays, the pace of social life is very fast, and everyone is more or less under the pressure of work and life. Harmonious measurement of sexual life is the best additive to the relationship between husband and wife, and it is also the cornerstone of men's confidence and self-esteem. Of course, sexual life should also master a harmonious and moderate principle. Excessive indulgence will affect your health. What is harmony and moderation? Harmonious people are congenial in temperament. Moderate, no more, no less. In terms of frequency, there are three main items according to the physical endurance of men:

1, sexual desire is naturally aroused and strong enough to be willing to have sex. Any forced sexual intercourse or coping with sexual intercourse is inappropriate.

2, the whole process of sexual intercourse is natural and complete, without physical and psychological discomfort.

3. Both parties don't feel tired during sexual intercourse the next day. If you are weak, listless, sleepy, short of breath, dizzy, backache and leg pain, and loss of appetite the next day, it is excessive and you must adjust yourself. So, don't blindly compare with others. If you look more than others, you will feel too much and feel bad, but you should judge according to your own feelings. Sexual life should be natural, not forced, not depressed, and not intentionally interrupted.

Fourth, bid farewell to the obscurity of "male" discourse and regain a "sexual" life.

Even seemingly healthy young men, if they have sexual dysfunction, it is more or less a health problem. Don't simply label it "psychological" without paying attention. I have diagnosed many patients with severe impotence. They were gentle at first and embarrassed to go to the hospital. Some of them had sex, some bought medicine at the drugstore, and some endured it. Finally, only a few of them went to see a doctor because they couldn't stand it. Among the patients with impotence diagnosed by me, the most common causes are metabolic diseases (hyperlipidemia, hyperglycemia and hypertension), androgen deficiency, vascular malformation, high prolactin and trauma.