About marriage: you know yourself when you drink water.

It is said that marriage is the grave of love. In my opinion, this sentence has different understandings for different people. After all, everyone feels differently.

Some people think that marriage is a kind of bondage, but most people will choose marriage and want to have a home, a child and a happy family with their lover. This is understandable.

However, I have always believed that marriage is a big event, and you must make a decision after careful consideration. It is very important to choose the object, provided that both parties love each other deeply.

Marriage without love is the saddest. So choosing the person you love is the premise. Of course, sometimes I will be forced. For example, if the family economy is not good, at this time, the woman's family will hope that the girl's choice will be better, so that she can live a better life and help her family. However, they did not consider whether their daughter was willing or not. They thought that she would be rich if the conditions were good, but this was not the case.

How's life? My own experience and feelings are the clearest. Often others always see our bright side, but they don't know what is behind us, and we don't know how many nights we have cried silently, which we don't know.

I chatted with my friend yesterday, and she said that her mother hoped that she could get married early, because getting married early and having children early would help the children to get married and build a house in the future. She also said that her mother didn't like girls getting married late, and it was very late at the age of 25 or 26. It is obvious that she agrees with her mother. I said to her, "well, someone is late, including some female stars." My friend immediately refuted me. She said: "The star economy is good, and we can't compare with them." I didn't say anything.

Nothing they say is wrong and understandable. But I have always adhered to the principle of not doing whatever I want, and besides, we are still young. We are only in our early twenties. My friend said that he would go on a blind date recently. She told me that blind date is sometimes a better choice, and I told her that she could go and see it. Although I told her so on the surface, in fact, if I were asked to go on a blind date now, I would refuse. Because I think we are still young, we have a lot of things to do, and now we are the most free time.

When you choose marriage, you have to take on more responsibilities. There is no freedom before, only rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and taking care of children. I think girls should maintain their own economic independence, have a certain amount of savings, have children, and be more confident at home without often taking each other's money. Buy whatever you want, so the premise is to work hard now.

My sister Jony J got married at the age of 22 and gave birth to a lovely boy at the age of 23. We all lamented how time flies, and suddenly she became a mother. But she has a lot of troubles. Since she got married, especially after giving birth to a child, she has been taking care of the child at home for a long time.

Her husband is the same age as her. They were introduced by friends. Yes, they got married in a flash. After talking for more than two months, I really didn't expect her to be so fast. Because they lived together before they got married. Xiao Jiajie's husband's mother died when he was young, so Xiao Jiajie took care of the child himself after the child was born. Although there are fathers-in-law, most men still don't rely on them.

There are two rooms in her house, one for her father-in-law and the other for her husband and wife. Although I have a place to live now, I won't have children when I grow up. Once she said to me, "hey, I was too young and didn't think well." I thought that as long as you have a crush on someone, everything is not a problem. At that time, my father told me that I should listen to him, because I was the only child in the family, and sometimes I blamed myself. " The most important thing to consider now is that when children grow up, they will struggle, make money and build houses. "

From her mouth, I heard helplessness. She always said that choice is choice, and it's no use regretting now. I have always advised me to keep my eyes open when I choose someone in the future. I always nod silently.

In her circle of friends, what I have seen recently is always the dynamic of her negative energy. I told her to have a good attitude, so that she would be happier.