What do you mean by handkerchief?

Hand-in-hand friendship refers to a female friend with close relationship and profound friendship, and its meaning is equivalent to today's girlfriends.

The ancient handkerchief is a jewel-like boudoir, a symbol of intimacy and warmth. Therefore, two women who like each other usually become Jin Lan's sworn sisters to express their feelings. These two women are called "seven Jin Lan" or "friends".

The ancients in China paid attention to reciprocity, so it was necessary to bring gifts when visiting other people's homes. Gifts don't care about dignity, but they must be there. Gifts between two people who meet occasionally or haven't seen each other for a long time must be very expensive. Gifts between two people who meet frequently can be as common as handkerchiefs.

Feelings of boudoir friends

Every woman, in her long life, must have several close friends who are like sisters. This kind of friend has a warm name, called "best friend". A close friend in a boudoir's heart is thin and inexhaustible, and his life is endless.

The friendship between women must be measured, both intimate and at a certain distance, so that friendship can be kept fresh for a long time. In this friendship, the most important thing is to respect each other's privacy, and don't take "nothing to say, nothing to talk about" as the highest standard of feelings. Whether we know each other or not depends not on the number of words, but on understanding.

And true friendship is not predestined by God, but won by yourself. Replace your heart with another, and great friendship will be born.