How to keep children away from mobile phones and online games

With the popularity of the Internet and the promotion of mobile Internet, many parents write to me or leave messages on the Golden Station. Children are addicted to mobile phones and online games. I published an article "The Truth of Addiction to Mobile Online Games" before, to introduce the brain mechanism that really makes children addicted to online games and mobile phones. In fact, it's just a desire, and children don't get real happiness from it. It's just a way to escape from reality and indulge in fantasy. ? I once received a parent who said that she was devastated by her children. The child is addicted to the internet, and his parents try their best not to let him turn back. In the office, I met the child. Students and parents used to be very excited to see me. But this child is different. He showed a hostile attitude. His eyes were straight and he could tell at a glance that he was in deep trouble. If you want to change this child, you must first melt his indifference of keeping people away. I asked him, "I don't know about this game, but I see many people are fascinated by it." Can you tell me what's interesting? " The child didn't expect me to start like this, which is naturally endless. Speaking of the pleasure of duel, the joy of upgrading, and the excitement of fighting, the eyes are shining with excitement. I asked him, "Do you feel guilty and empty while enjoying all this?" The child was silent for a long time and nodded. I thought it was time to get an education, so I said, "You are a sensible child. Can you recall how you got into the network? " The child said, "I used to study very well." I often listen to my classmates talk about online games. I felt curious and tried to play it several times. I didn't expect to sink in a little and develop to the point of despair. " I feel guilty every time I play in the dark. Especially when I saw my parents crying red eyes, I wanted to look back again and again. However, there are too many homework left in the study. When I encounter difficulties, the plot of the game will come to my mind and I will be led into the Internet cafe. "I comforted him:" From now on, don't go to Internet cafes. If you really want to play, let your parents decorate a set, and they agreed. You play for a while. This is fading away, ok? " The child replied: "As long as the parents are willing, of course." I worked with my parents again: "Don't worry, do as I say! The first step is to pull the child out of the internet cafe and allow him to repeat. As long as you are patient and calm, the whole process is under your supervision, and it is not a problem for children to quit Internet addiction! " The family went home happily. A month later, my parents called me and said that in the first week after I went back, my child devoted himself to his study and asked him if he wanted to play games to relax, but they ignored him. The next week, once the mother came home, she found the child locked in the house and secretly playing games. Mother suddenly became angry. But when I thought of my suggestion, I just stood behind the child with a smile and watched him play through customs. The child turned around happily, feeling guilty and afraid, waiting for his mother to show mercy. But my mother said, "son, you have made great progress." My mother knows that you can't change at once. I used to see you playing games, and my mother either hit you or scolded you. Now I feel that you are under great psychological pressure, but my mother is sorry for you. Let's get through this together in the future, ok? "The child saw the pains of his parents and cried sadly. Later, when I saw the children who were slowly on the right track, my parents deeply felt that the reason why children were infected with Internet addiction was because they also had great responsibilities. Scientific research shows that it takes 2 1 day to form good habits and 2 1 day to quit bad habits. It took just over three weeks for the child to make up his mind, get sick, repeat and finally consolidate.