I feel like living is really tiring. There are always invisible pressures that make people even more tired. What should I do? I’m so confused.

I feel like living is really tiring. There are always invisible pressures that make people even more tired. What should I do? I’m so confused. < /p>

Because life is like this

No one’s life is smooth sailing

As long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything you encounter

Keep a normal mind.

Just remember: If you don’t give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second

It is inevitable to fall and wait in life

You must raise your head bravely

< p> Sunshine always comes after the storm!

I’ll give you my opinion, do you think it’s okay?

1. Look at the world with a different perspective. Not everyone in this world is going smoothly. It just depends on how you solve it. For example, if you are hit by someone while walking and someone apologizes to you, sometimes you still can’t. You may feel angry, but you never thought that the person who bumped into you would actually feel more uncomfortable than you. You should think about the saying, "Happiness is a day, and unhappiness is a day, so why not be happy every day."

2. If you think you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, so don’t think about it. If you still think about it, then make yourself busy so that you have no time to think about it, and let yourself live a fulfilling life. Every minute, when you wake up in the morning, don’t fall in love with your bed. Get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine yourself as a happy little angel...

3. Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, no disturbance, and a place where you can move freely. Take a position that feels more comfortable for you, and stand, sit, or lie down.

4. Move some large joints and muscles of the body. When doing this, the speed should be even and slow. The movements do not need to have a certain pattern, as long as you feel the joints are relaxed and the muscles are relaxed.

5. Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, and say "Relax" silently in your mind every time you exhale.

6. Focus on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a candle, or anything soft and beautiful, and carefully observe its details. Light some spices and inhale the aroma.

7. Close your eyes and try to imagine some quiet and beautiful scenery, such as blue sea water, golden beach, white clouds, mountains and flowing water, etc.

8. Do some activities that you like that have nothing to do with the current specific matter. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, going shopping, listening to music, watching TV, etc.

9. Life is easy, work is easy, but life is not easy. Don't worry. There are many people in this society who are similar to you, but they all live happily. Not everyone can succeed. As long as you work hard on everything and take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter you No matter how your life is, I believe it will be wonderful. Come on!

Finally, I wish you can live happily every day!!! I am a 26-year-old man. Life is very confusing and I owe a lot of money. It makes me feel so tired, confused, and living a meaningless life. It’s so tiring to think about it

The reason why I owe money is because I have needs and sometimes I can’t control myself. Stop here. You are only 26 years old. Work hard and pay off your debts. Don't give up on yourself, otherwise the future will be really gloomy.

If you do not have an academic degree recognized by society, it is best to learn a craft or technology. What you are suitable to study, or what job you should do, and which direction you should develop can only be based on your personal abilities and Based on a comprehensive analysis of factors such as quality, preferences, market demand, etc., we can only give you suggestions and general directions, such as learning hairdressing, car beauty, cooking, car maintenance, etc. In fact, as long as it is an industry you like and you are willing to spend money If you take the time and energy to learn, you will have a future.

The future is in your own hands and under your own feet, take action! When I am in a foreign place, there is always an invisible pressure that makes me very tired.

I am also a person living in a foreign country, and I will also experience all the worries you have in mind.

Maybe life is like this! I commute to get off work on the bus every day, and looking at the tired faces on the bus, I know that everyone has their own stress.

So I’d better learn to relax. .. I believe it will be fine. This is God testing you. After you have gone through a period of time, you will find that when you are the hardest and most tired, it is the time when you feel the most accomplished. You are really a good person. I’m tired. Marriage makes me even more tired. What should I do?

I need to find out what the problem is and then talk to my wife calmly. Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families. Live your life well now, and don’t worry too much about things you struggled with before. I wish you happiness. I feel a lot of invisible pressure. Living is really meaningless

Yes, I feel that I have no motivation to do anything. I have no idea what I want to do in life. Even if I choose to imitate what others are doing, There’s no sense of “I’m doing something” at all. You can only ignore the meaning of life when you are enjoying it. From this point of view, maybe it is because of too much pressure that life is meaningless, but no one can enjoy it all the time. There will always be times when I have to accept pressure. I myself I have never experienced it, but I guess those who feel that life is always enjoying should have found a goal to strive for. Even if there is pressure, it can be neutralized by fun and a sense of accomplishment. So how should people who do not have such a goal face life. If you don't think about the goal of life with any faith, the result will always be empty and tasteless. Life will have no goal and no meaning. Although some people who believe in so-called "cults" will be considered to have brain problems, faith is It will make people accept some baseless things without thinking, while "clear-minded" people do not believe in anything. In the end, they find that the world has no rules at all, and there is no reasonable explanation for life, and they gradually fall into confusion. Maybe those who have faith are also confused and don't understand things, but they can still believe in something. As a person without faith, I really don't know the reason. There are good and bad endings. Although you have doubts, you can still continue to believe after the explanation is clear in the end. Most people whose beliefs are completely shattered commit suicide. I would not call this behavior suicide, because from the perspective of the person who committed suicide himself, From a perspective, life must be indeed light, but they would not think about life when they commit suicide. People who don’t know anything and have no ultimate goal will never feel like they have accomplished anything no matter how they accomplish small goals. They also don’t understand people who have goals at all. If they could understand, maybe they would know what to do. How to find the target. But this is all my problem. I am also confused and I am not the one who can provide any help. I am just speaking my own words.

Why are people so tired from living? I’m really confused. Thank you to my parents and my friends. I feel like I’m going to be depressed. I’m so tired.

You’re confused. When you are young, you might as well go out for a walk. A casual trip will help you understand why people live. At least you can see the sun tomorrow, and at least you can feel the pain! It's tiring to be a human being, and it's even more tiring to have no money and no house. Confused

Who doesn’t have his own worries and tiredness? Everyone is the same, but when they encounter tiring things, some people complain about being frustrated instead of trying to change the status quo, so they are more tired. Some people work hard to change the status quo, do not complain, are satisfied and cherish everything they have, and it is easy.

Not everyone is born with money and a house. Generally, you have to work hard to earn it.

Even if you don’t, then learn to be content with things as they come and make fewer demands, such as taking pleasure in keeping yourself full, and you will be very happy.

If you are greedy and unwilling to work hard, how can you achieve what you want?

Work hard! Work hard to make money, or if you have a dream, work hard to realize it, and you will not be confused.

I am a woman and I bought a house with my own money. If I didn’t work hard, where would I get the house?

If someone else gets more than you, then he must have paid more than you. Why is the invisible pressure increasing and making me so tired?

I think you don’t have to own someone to love someone, but you must love someone well if you have someone!! Only when you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, will you know what you need. Only then will you find the person who is most suitable for you and can be with you for a lifetime. But it is very sad that in real life, people who truly love each other may not be able to be together due to various reasons; the one you love most often does not choose you; the one who loves you most is often not the one you love most; and the one who lasts the most , but not the one you love the most, nor the one who loves you the most. Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever! No one intentionally changes his heart. When he loves you, he really loves you, but it is also true when he doesn't love you. If he doesn't love you anymore, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you; similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When someone doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her). If you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; if you still love him (her) For him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, and hope that he (she) can be with the person he truly loves, and you will never stop him (her) from getting true happiness. If you prevent him (her) from getting true happiness, it means that You no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what qualifications do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his heart? Love is not possession!!! You like stars. It is impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room. In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that your lover becomes an eternal memory in your life. If you really love someone, you must love him for who he is - love him for what he is, and love him as well. Bad: Love his strengths as well as his shortcomings. You can never hope that he will become what you want just because you love him. If he doesn't change, you won't love him anymore. You can't tell the reason for truly loving someone. You just know that no matter when, where, or in a good or bad mood, you want this person to be with you; true love is when two people can stay together in the most difficult times, that is, there is no love. The slightest request. After all, feelings must be given, not just obtained; separation is an inevitable test. If your relationship is not stable enough, you have to admit defeat. True love will not turn into resentment. When two people are in love, they like to ask each other to swear. Why do we ask each other to swear when we make a promise? It is because we don't believe in each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these vows are very unrealistic. The sea will never dry up, the rocks will never rot, the earth will never grow old, and the sky will never be deserted; even if it did, I still wouldn't be able to live by that time. When making a promise, be careful not to make a promise that can be fulfilled. It is best to promise something that cannot be achieved. Anyway, if you cannot do it, it doesn't matter. Please remember: "The promise that cannot be fulfilled is the most important thing." "Moving" In love, what you say is one thing, but what you do is another; the person who tells it doesn't believe it, and the person who listens doesn't believe it either... Who did you meet in the vast sea of ??people? Who met you again? Life is really tiring. I really want to go out and have a good time alone. If this continues, life feels really confusing.

As long as you have the courage to discover the interesting things around you. In fact, it will make you extremely happy. As long as you are happy, you will be full of hope for life. Then, it’s good to pursue your dreams for the future. Why is my son so bad? I am really tired and confused

When you reach adolescence, you have to have a rebellious mentality. This matter must be guided correctly and avoid direct conflict. In that case, the problem will only be more difficult and the child will be more rebellious