Only with responsibility can we stand on our feet, and only with responsibility can we always stand on our feet.

Family training: Only when you have the responsibility can you stand on your feet, and only when you have the responsibility can you always do it.

Family style story:

My father has been ups and downs in business for half his life. He is not so much a successful businessman as a dutiful son, an excellent father and a responsible person. What my father gave me was not rich material conditions, but the responsibility and responsibility were integrated into our daily life and passed on to us, guiding us to become a responsible person.

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My father is devoted to his parents and is a very filial son. His father's filial piety is famous in the whole village.

Growing up, my father made rules for my brother and me at home: 1. The first thing to do when you go home is to say hello to your elders. 2, when eating, the elders don't go to the table, and the younger generation can't sit first. 3. If you buy something back, you must give it to your elders first. 4. Do what your elders tell you. My father asked us so much, and he did a very good job himself, taking good care of his grandparents' daily life.

In 20 12, grandpa was paralyzed by a sudden cerebral hemorrhage, and his father stayed in front of his bed day and night. Two months of treatment didn't make grandpa's illness look better. A cheerful and wandering grandfather became grumpy and unreasonable. Father took grandpa home, took him to a room prepared in advance and took good care of him. Massage grandpa and turn over and scrub on time every day. He believes that his father will be as energetic as before. During grandpa's illness for more than two years, his father stayed up late and never closed the door. As long as there is any movement from grandparents next door, he will be the first to get up and check. Grandpa's illness became more and more serious in the later period, and he was incontinent, unable to swallow, and groggy all day. Grandpa couldn't say a word when his father turned him over. At this time, my father stayed in front of grandpa's bed all day, never leaving. Father sat silently in front of grandpa's bed, holding his shriveled hand and crying silently. After grandpa died of illness, his father wailed: "I don't have a father anymore!" " "After grandpa left, my father was more filial to my grandmother. Go to see grandma every morning and go to grandma's room twice at night to see if grandma's sleeping things are ready. In winter, dad brings grandma a urinal at night and pours it in the morning. The father said nothing to his grandmother, but regarded filial piety as his son's greatest responsibility.

With my father's action, my brother and I have been filial to our grandparents since childhood, even if we are married and have children now. Every once in a while, I will prepare gifts for my grandma and parents in advance and take my husband and daughter home to visit them the next day. The first thing I do when I go home is to visit my grandmother, chat with her, cut her nails and wash her clothes. Then I will spend time with my parents, listen to my mom's recent happy events, and talk to my dad about the troubles at work and at home. My parents are getting older, and I feel sad and responsible when I look at their faces that are no longer young. I am their support now, and they need my care. I understand that only by constantly being strong can I protect my elderly parents, so I work hard and hope that I can better shoulder the responsibility of being a child like them.

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My father is strict with us and is an excellent and good father.

Father created a superior living environment for us with his hard work. When we were young, my father was very strict with our family education, and we had to do all the work at home. When I grow up, my father tries his best to provide us with a good educational environment, hoping that we can go further than him. After marriage, my father was more worried about our life and helped us through one difficulty after another.

20 16 after we got married, my husband and I were poor and had problems living in places. My father didn't care about the custom that married women in rural areas couldn't live in their parents' homes, so he resolutely prepared a new house for us in the backyard, so that my children and I could live in peace. I didn't move out from my parents until 20 10 had my own house. The neighbor teased his father: "You are so kind to women, and you will expect women to support the elderly in the future!" "The father said with a smile," at least I will live in my daughter's house in the future, and my son-in-law won't kick me out. "I don't know what it would be like to have no father in my life. After 20 12, I got a serious lumbar disease. Without saying anything, my father prepared money to take me to Xi 'an for surgery. After being hospitalized for more than a month, my 50-year-old father gave me shit and urine and scrubbed. My illness is good and bad, and so is my father's health. Lying in the hospital bed, I looked at my elderly father and secretly vowed: "I must live well and take good care of my father." Even Mr. Wang said: "It is my blessing to have such a father, and I also want to support my father."

My father told me what I should do as a parent with practical actions. After having a daughter, she is also strict and loving in the education of her children. Give her enough love and teach her the truth of being a man. Now my ten-year-old daughter is never delicate, polite and reasonable, and she studies hard, and has won many awards from the school. I believe that she grew up in such a family with a good atmosphere and will be a good girl with responsibility and responsibility in the future! .

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My father has never held an official position, as long as he can, he is enthusiastic to help the village affairs, big and small. Whoever has a happy event or funeral will definitely look for him to take care of it; If anyone quarrels, be sure to ask him to persuade; Anyone who has difficulties must be invited to discuss it. I sometimes say to him, "Stay out of the village. Are you tired? " My father said, "People ask me to trust me, and I have a responsibility to do things well for others."

My father is also very concerned about my work. When I first started working, I was at a loss. I either want to ask for leave today or tomorrow, and I don't want to work hard anyway. My father patiently said to me, "Be a responsible person. If you stand in this position, you must do things well. Don't make excuses and don't take responsibility. " With my father's blow, I suddenly woke up. As a teacher, I do my job diligently and practically. In the usual teaching, I strictly demand myself, never take unprepared classes, never give up a class, never give up a student, set an example and lead them to become honest, kind, hardworking and diligent people. I never delay my work at school and try my best to adjust the relationship between family and work. Although it can't be perfect, it doesn't bear great trust in teaching and live up to expectations in work.

My life journey of more than 30 years, it is precisely because of my father's good tutor that I can keep introspection and progress, and slowly gain a foothold in the society and the unit. I will stick to my father's family precepts and keep moving forward, and pass on the family precepts of responsibility and responsibility!