After the age of 35, the tide of male unemployment came. What should men over 30 do?

30 years old, with a family. This time is not suitable for changing jobs and industries. As a man with a mortgage, children to go to school and a hospital, let me talk about how men should plan at this stage.

First, full-time jobs must be kept and active. At your age, you are actually not allowed to be unemployed, especially if a company has stayed for several years in a row, which is even more unsuitable for unemployment. Stay in a place where the company is not inspiring. If you can have the prospect of struggle, try to create some value and rush. As for whether you can get a promotion or a raise, it depends on your life.

Because men at this stage, as long as they get married and have children, they need to face the expenses of their wives' pregnancy and the helplessness of their wives' unemployment, the first illness of their parents and the money of their children's milk powder. In this case, you are not allowed to start from scratch, so you can only accept "job hopping" and capital preservation, but not many people can quit, so you have to keep your original job.

Second, find a way to start a sideline, no matter what. You can't always work to support your family and maintain your life, but you have no ability to bear accidents at all. So you must have a sideline, so that you can bear the accident of life.

There are several options for my sideline: running Didi or motorcycle on weekends, collecting specialties from my hometown, hanging a treasure or music shop when I have nothing to do, cooperating with people in my hometown, selling whatever I can, and earning a cigarette. Take myself for example, what I often sell is honey from my hometown, wine from tiger bees, cloud cakes from my hometown, imperial oranges, Maogu oranges, bamboo shoots and so on. These can be sold as long as you try to sell them yourself.

Third, there are trade-offs between husband and wife. In our family, the couple's choice is that my wife works as a freelancer, while I keep full-time and then do some sideline work. This choice was made by my wife. According to her, one of us must be free in time because our parents are not feeling well and our children need to be taken care of.

When she was pregnant, she was already teaching herself skills that she thought she could not go to work. After giving birth to the baby, she devoted herself to taking orders. In her words, pregnancy and breastfeeding are fixed. If she doesn't make a plan during this time, it will be difficult for us to walk behind.

Of course, it doesn't mean that women in a family must make sacrifices, but find a method that suits them best. Only in this way can the family be harmonious and happy, and all aspects will not be chaotic. Because it is not far from the age of 35, if you don't plan well, you may not even be able to pay your child's tuition and fees, let alone interest classes.

Generally speaking, no matter whether the 35-year-old will really lose his job, men over 30 will undoubtedly fail if they don't have a sideline, at least they don't have a crisis plan.