My boyfriend and I got married and asked me to wash his parents' feet and face that night. His family didn't treat me well either. ...

Being married now shows that you love your boyfriend very much. His parents are the people who raised him with great pains, that is, your parents. There is no deliberate chaos, and no one will play tricks on people by washing their faces and feet. It is our custom to serve tea and water. Come to think of it, you haven't lost anything, have you? Being a daughter-in-law, sometimes doing something is actually right.

If his family is not good to you, then let's see what life will be like in the future. If it goes too far, don't put up with it. But old people's thoughts are much worse than young people's. Sometimes, there is nothing to worry about. Filial piety is your responsibility as a wife.

If you feel wronged and his family doesn't respect your parents, you have only two choices, either endure or endure.