Have you noticed the three characteristics of a false breakup?

We have seen many, many breakups, but sometimes we are confused about it. Does he really want to break up with me, or is he leaving tentatively?

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Often, we lose the best time to redeem ourselves in this entanglement, or make the other party hate us even more because of mistakes in judgment.

In fact, what we encounter most is fake breakups. The other person is just using the breakup to show off, but you think he really wants to let go, so you wait without staying. Naturally, fake breakups are It became a real score.

It’s a pity, isn’t it? Because you had every opportunity and ability to retain the other party, but you just missed it because you failed to distinguish it. Today, we are here. Let’s talk about the topic of fake breakup and what characteristics it has.

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Not stated to be single

Fake breakup. People will not tell their friends that they are single, because they know what they are doing and they may get back together at some point, so they simply don’t tell them to save themselves the trouble of explaining later.

So in the other person's circle of friends, you will still see the harmony as before, and there will never be any words about breaking up or being single. If this happens to a boy, it proves that his departure is just a trial, and now he is in urgent need. Your retention can be successful as long as you are willing to let go of a little face.

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High emotional ups and downs

Another characteristic of a false breakup is the other person. It's easy to understand that the mood fluctuates greatly. It's similar to a child. He will laugh when he gets the candy he likes, and cry when he doesn't get it.

The other person may have more complicated emotions. , he is looking forward to your redemption and concern. When you show a little concern, he will be happy. When this little concern is not enough to satisfy him, he will be angry. Moreover, when you take the initiative to redeem him, he will pretend to be reserved. . Is it difficult to understand?

In fact, this is also a characteristic of false breakup, because his emotions are related to you. Don’t give up at this time, hold on for a while, and victory will naturally belong to you.

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Still willing to contact you

Of course, the other party who has truly broken up will also be willing to contact you, but the relationship with the false breakup will be different. The methods are different. If you contact him again after a fake breakup, he will be very indifferent, but as long as you send him a message, he will definitely reply. It is different with a real breakup. The other party will not be indifferent, but you may have to wait for a long time after you send him a message.

There are many factors that need to be judged. Some emotional people can see through the cause and effect at a glance, so if you can get their help, it is natural to judge whether it is a false breakup. It is not difficult.

We will encounter many mistakes in our lives, so we can only look at the things in front of us with a pious heart and try to make as few mistakes as possible. No matter how little it is, try to embrace perfection and fall in love with it.