The golden sentence of life written to myself in 2022

First, those who make irresponsible remarks about you behind your back and make up stories have three reasons: they are not up to your level; He doesn't have what you have; Try to imitate your lifestyle.

Second, I hope that you now, don't be afraid of the status quo, and don't force yourself. Things change, there will always be a period of time to waste. Bad days often have special value, but only if you survive.

Third, when you keep saying that you are busy, you will never get space; When you keep saying that you have no time, you will never get time; When you keep saying that you will do it tomorrow, your tomorrow will never come.

Fourth, we all have to go through a period of trying to shut up and not complain before we can shine, go to cooler places and become cooler people.

The greatest happiness in life is the benevolent. A dull life or hard work, as long as you finally get what you want, all life deserves to be blessed.

Sixth, people who live a confused life are easy to be happy; People who live a sober life are easily troubled. This is because sober people look too real, too real, and there will be troubles everywhere in life; However, a confused person, he seldom cares, because his simple and rough life has found the great taste of life.

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Seven, life is very short, if you accidentally meet the wrong person, you must learn to stop.

Eight, life is alive, it is inevitable that you will encounter many disappointments. If there are unpleasant things in life, don't be dissatisfied and resentful, and don't be bitter and depressed. You have to face both blessings and disasters, and both good and bad will pass.

Nine, people should be thicker alive. This is embarrassing, and that is embarrassing. Then how can you be embarrassed to live? What's there to be afraid of when you make a mistake and laugh it off? When you are interested in this world, your growth will increase day by day.

Ten, we often feel sorry for what we missed, but in fact, the mystery of life often exceeds your expectations, and you should believe that everything is the best arrangement at any time.

Eleven, life is often unsatisfactory, happy people are not without pain, but they cultivate a strong heart, so they are not affected by pain. With a strong heart, it is not life that controls you, but you control life.

Twelve, don't dwell on an embarrassing thing for too long. If you struggle for a long time, you will be bored, painful, tired, sad and heartbroken. In fact, after all, you don't have a problem with things, but you have a problem with yourself. No matter how embarrassing it is, learn to walk away.

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From today on, I hope you will live up to your time, try to be a lovely person, don't envy anyone, don't blame anyone, enjoy your scenery and meet your happiness on your own road.

Fourteen, it is better to live by yourself than to look at other people's faces; It is better to live mercilessly than to pretend carefully. In this world, there are no obstacles that can't be crossed, only things that can't be let go. To look down on everything is to be kind to yourself.

15. If someone satirizes you, you will immediately respond sharply. Someone looks down on you for no reason, and you immediately look down on him. Someone shows off in front of you, and you immediately prove that you are better. If someone is cold to you, you will be cold and distant at once. Look, those people you hate can easily turn you into what you hate the most. This is the biggest harm that the "enemy" has done to you.

You should try everything, because you never know what kind of things or people will change your life.

17. Only modest people have the best chance to see the world clearly. If a person doesn't want to climb higher, he is not afraid of falling and doesn't have to crowd out others. He can keep his innocence, become natural and concentrate on what he can do.

18. Everything that appears in life can't be owned, only experienced. We are just passers-by of time, and one day, we will say goodbye to everything. Those who know this well will understand that there is no loss, just passing by; It doesn't matter what you get, it's just an experience.

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Nineteen, if you want to do something, don't declare your thoughts everywhere, just do it quietly. Is it worth it? Time is the best proof that you are responsible for your own life.

Twenty, imagine yourself as a cube of sugar, put it in coffee, and coffee will not be bitter; Put it in tea, and the tea will not be astringent. As long as you are sweet enough to blend into this world, your whole world is sweet enough.

Twenty-one, the busier you are, the more careful you are in life. Don't be consumed by unnecessary personnel. Don't wallow in the quagmire of life. Always know what is most important to you and who is most important to you. Stay focused and alert. Where time is spent, life is there.

Nine times out of ten, if you want to live a happy life, you must learn to let go. Only by letting the past pass can we get rid of the heavy burden; As long as you don't give up, nothing can make you back down; As long as you are strong enough, nothing can crush you.

Twenty-three, life is your own, you don't have to use other people's standards to frame your own life. If you want to please everyone and meet everyone's standards, you will eventually lose yourself. You can't satisfy everyone, because everyone's standards are different.

One day you will understand that people can't be too kind. If everything is too generous and tolerant, others will not appreciate you, but will intensify. People should have a little temper. Being too kind will make you lose value and dignity. Being too kind is also stupid. Remember one sentence: people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. Everything is enough, and if you are too kind, you will lack your mind; Excessive humility will make you weak.