Mother-in-law always avoids her daughter-in-law and secretly tells her son the reason.

Since ancient times, every household has had conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seems to be a relationship that every family will experience. After all, when a son grows up, he must marry a daughter-in-law, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family will be established. In the final analysis, there will still be contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Because two people are actually not related by blood. Two strangers who have never had any intersection, because some relationships have become a family, are connected in series by the middleman who is the son or the husband. Living together will inevitably have contradictions, big and small. Sometimes when a mother-in-law has something to do, she will deliberately avoid her daughter-in-law and secretly tell her son when her daughter-in-law is not around. What made her mother-in-law choose to do this? Listen to me. Why?

First, don't treat your daughter-in-law as family. Some mother-in-law always treats her daughter-in-law as an outsider. She felt that her daughter-in-law didn't have to participate in some housework and had no right to know, so that she avoided her daughter-in-law and secretly told her son everything at home. This is the most direct manifestation that the mother-in-law does not treat her daughter-in-law as a family. In fact, sometimes my mother-in-law doesn't make her position clear. In this family where the son and daughter-in-law live together, the mother-in-law is an outsider and the daughter-in-law is the hostess of the family. Too much interference in the son's housework will easily lead to the contradiction between the son and the daughter-in-law, and it is more likely to lead to family discord.

Second, in the face of his son, everything is easy to say.

Sometimes my mother-in-law always feels something. After all, it is more convenient to tell your son whatever it is. They feel that the daughter-in-law is not her own daughter after all, and nothing can be put down. Sometimes the mother-in-law feels that her daughter-in-law has done something wrong and it is not convenient to point it out in person. She may tell her daughter-in-law through her son's mouth that she is kind, but in the eyes of her daughter-in-law, she will feel that her mother-in-law does not treat herself as a family, and there will be a gap in her heart.

Third, quietly say something unpleasant to the eye.

Some particularly irrational mother-in-law always feel that their daughter-in-law has robbed her son and often looks at her. In the previous family, the mother-in-law was always the biggest, but now with the progress of society, more and more independent women are unwilling to give in to her mother-in-law's coercion, and they will not obey her unconditionally. It is precisely because of this that there are more and more contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Many bad-hearted mother-in-law will get in the way in front of her son and always say something unpleasant behind her daughter-in-law's back, which is why she secretly tells her son behind her back.

It is right for a daughter-in-law to be filial to her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law should treat her daughter-in-law sincerely. Now that we are in the house, we should be regarded as a family, impartial. The daughter-in-law treats her mother-in-law as her own mother, and her mother-in-law also treats her daughter-in-law as her own daughter. Don't hide anything, if there is any contradiction, make it clear to your face. It's like a family.