The first biochemical test tube transplant, the second implantation, my husband wants to give up, what should I do?

Viewpoint: the revolution has not yet succeeded, and comrades still need to work hard! On the way to having a baby, you must have faith. Failure once means failure twice, and failure twice means success. Trust me. People with physical immunity problems will make hundreds of efforts to conceive children than other normal people. If you don't persist, you won't have a chance. Come on, theme! It's not easy for a woman to give birth to a child. It's really torturing. I have a deep understanding in recent years. It may be helpful for you to talk about my experience.

I didn't know about the fetal arrest until my fourth pregnancy. I used to think that as long as I was pregnant, I could give birth to a baby in 10 months according to normal pregnancy steps, and there was no big risk.

But after three times of fetal arrest, it completely changed my view on female pregnancy. It turns out that there are so many risks in having a baby, and it is really not easy to have a baby.

When we were pregnant for the first time, our family was very happy. I thought that in a few months, I could add another population to my family. My father still holds a dictionary every day, ready to name the child. My mother has completed all the equipment for carrying children.

When I found out I was pregnant, I tested it with a test paper. The color of the test paper is very light, not red at all, and not as deep as others say. At that time, we didn't notice this problem and thought it was normal.

After a few days, I found something was wrong. Dark brown material began to flow out. In a hurry, I went to the regional hospital in the city for examination. After blood test, progesterone, estradiol and HCG were found to be abnormal. Progesterone has only single digits, estradiol is less than 65,438+05, and HCH sometimes exceeds 200.

The doctor gave us some progesterone tablets and HCG supplements for treatment, but the embryo finally stopped developing at the seventh week. In the end, you can only choose abortion.

We want to know why embryos stop developing. At that time, I didn't think about the deep-seated reasons. I simply thought that this time it might be that my body didn't have a good rest and I was too tired to work, which led to fetal arrest. Didn't go to the hospital for further examination. I just bought some folic acid supplements at the suggestion of the general practitioner.

A year later, I got pregnant for the second time. I remember that when I was pregnant, it happened to be the day before the Chinese New Year, and everyone was so happy. This time, the color of the test paper is slightly darker than the first time, and we all think it should be okay this time.

Take a good rest during the Spring Festival, and then take a vacation after the Spring Festival to raise the baby. But the good times didn't last long. By the sixth week, dark brown secretions began to flow out again. After going to the regional hospital for blood test, all three pregnancy items were low. Then take drugs that supplement progesterone and estradiol.

The final result is that the time of fetal arrest is a little earlier than last time, and the embryo is directly biochemical. None of us can figure out why this happened. The family was sad for a long time.

At the same time, we also realize that there may be something wrong with our body and we need to have a good check-up, otherwise we will not be able to have children if we continue like this.

Later, we checked the reproductive experts in provincial hospitals online and chose an authoritative doctor in the province to see IVF. At that time, the doctor gave us nearly 3,000 examination items, almost all of which were very poor except that the embryo chromosome could not be examined.

The doctor said that the main problem was immunity, and then he prescribed a bunch of drugs, such as mecobalamin, metformin, calcitriol and aspirin, so many that I couldn't name them. It can be said that I take medicine every day at lunch, from morning to sleep.

Then three months later, I went to see this doctor for reexamination. The doctor said that the original problematic indicators had returned to normal and I was ready to get pregnant. At that time, we were all very happy and finally saw hope.

Soon after, I got pregnant and the medicine prescribed by the doctor didn't stop. Ribavirin has been taken according to the doctor's advice, and I also took a group of immunoglobulins. But after the sixth week, dark brown secretions similar to nightmares appeared intermittently. Seeing that the pregnancy is becoming more and more abnormal, the doctor told us that the fetus had stopped and suggested that surgery should be done as soon as possible.

The feeling at that time was a bolt from the blue. How can this happen again? We don't want to give up. According to the introduction of netizens, we found another expert on reproductive abortion in another hospital in the provincial capital.

After seeing the third trimester, this doctor Liu prescribed several drugs that we had never used before, including sildenafil, but I forgot the other names. Dr. Liu frowned when he saw that there was something wrong with NK on the original checklist, because we had never taken any medicine to treat NK.

Embryonic buds and weak heartbeat began to appear in the seventh week after Dr. Liu's abortion. Very weak, not obvious, looks abnormal. By the eighth week, fetal arrest appeared again.

I have no choice but to accept the reality. After the abortion operation, we tested the embryo chromosome, and the result was still no problem. Then I checked the anticardiolipin antibody, which was normal at that time.

This time, it was even more unfortunate that intrauterine adhesions appeared after the abortion operation, which meant two more hysteroscopic operations, and it really collapsed at that time. I have no choice but to bite the bullet.

Before the fourth pregnancy, we went to see Dr. Liu again and carefully confirmed that all the tests had been checked before we began to prepare for pregnancy. Take cyclosporine from the time of pregnancy and take one heparin every day.

After we got pregnant successfully, we immediately found a place to live near the hospital. Dr. Liu suggested that three pregnancy indicators should be tested every other day, and that anticardiolipin antibodies should be checked again.

After 12 hours, I changed a piece of heparin, and the next day, Bai Rui took a piece, and Esip gave me an injection. And a group of immunoglobulins. After reviewing our three pregnancy indicators, Dr. Liu adjusted the treatment plan, one heparin a day, one Android four hours later and Bai Rui the next day.

Finally, in the seventh week, embryonic buds appeared and the heartbeat was normal. Most of the hanging hearts have been put down and a historic breakthrough has been made.

It's really difficult to take so many medicines every day, but we still stick to it.

Finally, after seeing the anticardiolipin antibody index we re-examined, Dr. Liu made it clear that the previous several fetal stops were caused by anticardiolipin antibody syndrome.

This time, after Dr. Liu's remedy, the miscarriage was successful. This is our experience in protecting the fetus, and we feel that we can make a ups and downs TV series.

Finding the right doctor In the process of protecting the fetus, we must find the right doctor, or we will give up halfway.

In my experience, the first time I made a test tube to find an authoritative doctor, there was a lack of reproductive protection. In view of our own situation, we finally chose Dr. Liu for treatment.

Many of the patients consulted by Dr. Liu came to see Dr. Liu from the side where the test tube transplant was done, all for the treatment after the test tube transplant was successful.

Doctors who are good at IVF are not necessarily good at reproductive abortion. My experience is a good example.

The subject is a test tube transplant, so a comprehensive examination should be done before transplantation to ensure that the physical condition meets the transplant requirements, and then the test tube should be made. It is suggested that the subjects should seek an authoritative doctor again and have a comprehensive examination of all physical indicators. After successful transplantation, we will find a professional abortion specialist for abortion treatment.

Well-known domestic abortion experts include Dr. Liu from Beijing and Dr. Chen from Guangdong. Their videos can be seen on the Internet. The subject can consult all aspects. We didn't see Dr. Liu in Beijing, but we met Dr. Liu in our province. Beijing is too far away from us.

After finding the right doctor for the right medicine, we should trust the doctor in all directions, listen to the doctor's advice, check all the indicators, and prescribe the right medicine for the problems that arise.

Take medicine according to the doctor's advice, actively cooperate with the treatment, and don't feel trouble. Don't give up, don't give up. At this time, you will only have hope of success if you listen to the doctor.

There are many problems in the sensory immune system, which will cause fetal arrest in metropolis. For example, we are caused by anticardiolipin antibody syndrome. If you don't review, you won't find this problem.

Seeing you talk about biochemistry, I wonder if it's the immune system. Test tube experts may ignore some inspection items and abnormal indicators. It is best to find a reproductive and fetal doctor to do a comprehensive investigation.

Summarize suggestions, find a good doctor, listen to the doctor's arrangement, comprehensively check the physical condition, prescribe the right medicine, and actively cooperate with the treatment.

Stay optimistic, don't be depressed, and have confidence in success. If you don't persist, you won't succeed. There is hope if you work hard. Whatever you do, it's the same.

Wait for the good news of your success, and remember to treat me to full moon wine later!

I gave birth to a lovely baby for the sixth time, thanking myself for not giving up.

Go on, the success rate of IVF is 50-60%. Check the reason, the reason of embryo is 50%, the problem of endometrium and uterine cavity, is there inflammation in pelvic cavity? Is there hydrosalpinx and adhesions? Just relax。

It is normal to want to give up after the second test tube transplantation is unsuccessful. The neighbor succeeded for the third time and gave birth to a pair of male twins. The woman failed twice before, and suffered a lot of pain and suffering both physically and mentally, so she also wanted to give up. Her mother-in-law and mother-in-law have made great efforts in psychological counseling and comfort, and their financial resources are guaranteed. Her husband doesn't care. If he wants to have a baby, he will cooperate. If he doesn't want to have a baby, he won't insist. Asking IVF to need money as a guarantee is unsuccessful for the second time, which is both costly and painful. Therefore, when you begin to have the idea of seeking test-tube children, you should be prepared for the second unsuccessful attempt. If you fail twice, you give up. Your money is wasted, and so is your pain. Maybe the third time and the fourth time will succeed. With children, you will have all the unexpected things. Work hard!

Eat more high protein. My sister-in-law ate only one whole egg for 9 eggs a day a few days before the test tube 10, and all the others ate protein and a catty of shrimp. The test tube succeeded once and gave birth to twins. Now the baby is almost 1 1 month, so cute. The uterus is like a field, which needs nutritious seeds to take root and sprout.

The women who walk on the test tube road are very strong and brave. It's all about having a baby of your own. They can understand how you feel.

Your husband wants to give up because there is no hope. But as a woman, you are actually more stressed. What you are experiencing is both physical and psychological stress. Of course, this family has to bear economic pressure. So I suggest that you must open your heart with your husband, communicate well, express your thoughts, and don't keep them in your heart. It will be much easier to say it. This is not for you alone. We must believe that it will always succeed and the baby will always come to us. Just like Zhang Ting, a famous star in China, she did IVF nine times in three years before she confessed her success. In these three years, she had more than 65,438+0,000 injections. It is conceivable that her efforts and strength will greatly admire everyone. Therefore, there are many people who work harder, harder and braver than us in this world.

We should be full of hope and actively strive for our goals. I believe that there will always be a rainbow after the storm.

The two couples must hit it off. As the saying goes, when they hit it off, their profits will be cut off! Come on [light the safety light] [give force]

Your husband loves you very much. I'm going to check my immunity and hysteroscopy to prepare for the next transplant. Test tube is a tired road. Let's cheer together (_? )?

Don't give up, or all the previous sufferings will be in vain. This is my first biochemistry, my second success, and I will be born in four weeks. The pain of failure really makes life worse than death, but there is still hope to have an embryo. Let me talk about what tests have been done after biochemistry.

My husband and I were very happy when we first measured it with test paper, but it became weaker and weaker in the next few days. Later, the doctor changed my medicine, which didn't help. It was biochemical, but I cried with a test paper. Why are the best blastocysts biochemical? I even want to divorce my husband and don't want to continue. Later, the doctor comforted me and asked me to check the biochemical causes and rule out some factors. Next time will be no problem. Then the doctor said that all my waiting lists had no inflammation such as gynecological diseases, and there was no need for laparoscopy. Let's start with immunity Then I was given a lot of blood lists to check all the items of the immune system, including lupus erythematosus and folic acid immunity. I took 14 tubes of blood, did all the tests, and found that one tube was positive for antinuclear antibody. The doctor said that it was estimated that this would affect the implantation, and let me take prednisone and aspirin for a month before going to check.

For the second transplant, the doctor adjusted the medication and arranged heparin, prednisone, aspirin and other drugs for assistance. I followed the doctor's advice and the transplant was successful. I know the pain of failure, and I hope you and your husband will not give up. Find the reason, and you will succeed. Good luck with your pregnancy.

Do not give up! Do not give up! Do not give up!

We are also in the test tube, biochemical for the first time, and now we are preparing for the second transplant.

In fact, men simply don't understand the pain of test tubes, regardless of physical pain, mental torture is the most uncomfortable. No one wants to fail again and again, but it's a pity to give up before reaching the goal.

My husband and I have been married for 8 years. I have been taking medicine, seeing a doctor and being hospitalized for surgery. I experienced hope and disappointment again and again, and we didn't give up. You'd better not give up.

Persuade your husband to stick to it and you will succeed. Let's cheer together! Next time, it will be successful!

Bodhisattva will bless us.

Test-tube transplantation refers to the combination of sperm and eggs in vitro by scientific means to form fertilized eggs, which are then cultured into early embryos and then transplanted into female uterine cavity to develop into fetuses. It is not difficult to see that the whole initial stage is human intervention, coupled with age restrictions, the older the age, the lower the success rate of test tubes. I think if you decide to do a test tube, you should first do a comprehensive pre-pregnancy examination for both husband and wife, and then do it after conditioning normally. If you fail, sum up your experience and don't be too influenced by emotions. After all, the success rate of test tubes is not 100%. Test tube is a tiring thing. If you fail, adjust your mentality first. Maybe we can have a healthy and beautiful baby next time.