What if the girl you like complains to you? How should I reply when a girl complains to you?

If the girl you like often complains to herself, it is actually a good opportunity to chase her. It is definitely more important for girls to complain to you on behalf of your status, so the way of comfort is very important at this time.

What if the girl you like complains to you?

First, don't fall into comfort mode easily.

Many times, girls will be angry and upset because of some trivial things in life, but many boys can easily magnify these trivial things, try to ask girls why they are unhappy in a hurry, deal with a big event to comfort girls and try their best to help her solve it, so it is easy to fall into the "comfort mode".

For example, if a girl quarrels with a friend and complains to you, you can criticize "you are just too kind" and "your friend has a bad character" at will. But in fact, although the injustice she said in her mouth is only to express her friend's dissatisfaction, your seemingly considerate words and actions are just mindless maintenance and care for her, which is worthless.

Understand that girls' small emotions are short-lived, and girls can digest them themselves. Anxious to comfort girls will not impress them, but will make them feel that your concern is cheap and make you inferior in front of them.

Second, change the subject and distract her.

If a girl just complains about you as an emotional trash can, she can't get comfort, but it's easy to get into a bad relationship without paying attention to her. Never perfunctory girls, girls can perceive your impatience, think that you hate her and treat her worse than before, which will deepen her negative emotions and your relationship may deteriorate.

The correct way is to make the girl happy, ask her out to play, go shopping and go to the movies together. Make her happy in these ways, and you can also get closer with her.

Third, screen the negative emotions of girls.

When a girl comes to you to share her negative emotions, she may not trust you, but probably just want to talk to someone. At this time, don't accept her negative emotions and express your understanding, such as:

"I am very confused about the future. What if you don't want anything? "

"When can I become rich and live a luxurious life?"

"How can I make my future self not regret? Life is so boring now. "

In the face of girls' illusory complaints, don't go along with girls. You can say to girls: Aren't we working hard now? I don't understand your idea. Because girls only treat you as an emotional trash can, even if you make girls happy, the relationship between girls and you is not equal, and girls will not care about you.

How do girls reply when they complain to you?

One, just want to talk, don't need a solution.

In fact, this kind of conversation accounts for about 50% of daily chat. The average girl is really just talking, and the boy doesn't need to be too serious. Generally, when girls are slightly depressed after talking about these things, their mood will be better. It is suggested that the majority of boys can distinguish these things. For example, I have a lot of work today, and I guess I have to work overtime at night. Or the company's food tonight is not good, it's really not delicious.

When you meet this kind of conversation, please remember that when you are familiar with this kind of conversation, you don't have to pay too much attention to it. Don't think about the corresponding solutions or take actions for every word a girl says. What you need to do is to use some language skills to cheer her up and get rid of her depressed emotions. You can usually use some funny words.

Second, I want to talk about it and think of a solution.

At this time, the average girl will have some practical difficulties, such as feeling that the working atmosphere is not good, not knowing how to deal with it, or feeling that the leader has opinions on her. These things that have actually happened and have been bothering girls need you to listen patiently as a boy and help solve these practical difficulties for girls.

What if the boy says I can't solve it? Baidu basically has an answer to everything. What you have to do is to integrate these answers into your values, and then you can care about the girl subjectively when she is in a good mood, and tell her the answers you have prepared, so that the girl has a sense of enlightenment.

The girl I like complains about how to chase her.

First of all, you should listen to the girl's questions quietly, and then express your sympathy and understanding for her suffering with her emotions.

For example, if a girl spits at you, you spit with her. If she is wronged, spit on the person who wronged her to express your indignation, and be sure that the girl is right.

For example:

Woman: I'm so annoyed. I was scolded by the leader again today.

Man: What's the matter?

After the girl tells you the cause and effect, no matter who is right or wrong, you should tell the girl:

"Your boss is simply menopausal, and he likes to find a sense of existence if he has nothing to do."

W: Yes, I think she is just looking for bones in an egg.

M: OK, OK, you don't have to have a hard time with middle-aged menopausal women. Maybe that's why she's so angry with you and snickers behind your back. You can't let her succeed.

So girls are in a much better mood? At this time, you can also promote a wave of relationships:

"In a bad mood? Go, I'll take you to chic, and let the trouble go to hell. "

Is this another way to invite girls?

What should girls pay attention to when complaining to you?

Don't give her any ideas.

Brother, you must remember that many boys have stumbled in this link. Boys are depressed to find that when girls complain to themselves, they rack their brains to give her advice and always want to help girls solve problems. But in the end, I don't know why, when I was helping girls, I made girls' emotions worse and worse, and even regarded myself as a punching bag to vent their emotions. Boys are also very depressed, feel wronged, and look confused, unable to understand what girls want. So, brother, do you understand why this is happening?

The reason is that those boys have no idea what girls want! Maybe you heard a girl say to you, "What should I do?" "How should it be solved?" But what a girl wants is not that you help her solve things. What she wants is to come to you to vent her emotions, and you give her some emotional satisfaction. Moreover, when a girl is looking for you, her thinking must be confused and she will not rationally think about whether the idea you gave her is useful or not. The only girl who thinks of her is so sad, but you are so calm. She will think that you don't understand her feelings at all, and you will just look on coldly. It's really ruthless.