Why is there a generation gap between children and parents?

1. Both sides have different expectations, and both want to be recognized by the other side.

It can be said that every parent in the world can't avoid the expectation of their children.

From the moment they know the sex of the child, parents begin to imagine what the child will look like.

When I grow up in school, I expect more.

Only parents can understand that expectation.

However, many parents often expect too much, especially those parents who have feudal remnants such as "princes must be like princes, preferring to have seeds" and "emperors take turns to do it and come to my house next year". They all hope that their children will get ahead in the future, become a phoenix, become a hero and honor their ancestors.

Do everything possible to grow up by educating and cultivating children and spare no effort to shape successful and perfect children.

But in the end, excellent children are extremely rare after all, and most children still have to return to the normal track and live a normal life.

Parents' expectations can never be directly proportional to reality.

What children expect from their parents is that they should be considerate of me and let me choose freely.

Adult children who have been eager for parental approval are often denied by their parents.

Therefore, the expectations of both sides are different, and the reaction will be different when they collide.

Because they are relatives, both sides take each other's changes for granted. When both sides are rejected, communication will be difficult and conflicts will arise.

The fate of children is as great as that of Qian Qian, and all roads lead to Rome.

Parents should treat their children's growth and development with a normal heart.

As long as they are healthy, safe, happy and happy, that's enough.

As a child, we should understand the good intentions of our parents.

You will find that when you have a little success, your parents will be very happy and satisfied.

There is a generation gap between parents and children.

A girl from Zhihu shared her story, saying that when "asking for support" was popular in the past, I posted it on QQ space and finally wrote "asking for support".

After a long separation, I was educated by my parents' seven aunts and eight aunts, which ruined my family's reputation. There has never been such a shameless person in my family for generations ... once I asked my father:

Dad, do you have WeChat?

Dad said: I don't care about prestige. Your mother is in charge.

In the evening, I ate in a circle of friends, with the article "Revenge the society in the middle of the night". Dad's message: don't make reactionary remarks, delete them quickly! ..... You see, this is a typical generation gap problem.

It is often said that there is a generation gap of three years old and five years old. Many parents worry that there is a generation gap between themselves and their children. Actually, this is normal.